I dumped him cause I found out he cheated on me about three times a week with his ex-gf and now she is pregnant with his kid, and he was so nice to me and very loving, but noe I feel lonely and need someone to spend my time with, I need answers and sujestions please.
2006-10-17 08:46:35 · 12 answers · asked by shadowed_desire_1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take some time to heal through this one... or you will hurt your rebound BF... just remember that cheaters go to a special kind of hell... one reserved for child molesters and people who talk durring movies!!!
2006-10-17 08:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't ever go into a relationship thinking you need someone you will always screw yourself by going that route, however, you should go in, knowing that you are good by yourself but that you want someone to enhance your life. Also when you enter into the dating phase you should make it very clear to the person you are pursuing, your intentions, whether it be a (1) night stand, just kicking it, or looking to settle down, that way both parties know what each other is expecting, and no one's time is being wasted. Good luck and may the search begin!
2006-10-17 09:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Platinum P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do....do NOT go back to him.
I think you should be alone for a while. Focus on you. Find yourself again. Go out with friends (male or female) instead of a boyfriend...you won't be lonely. Do what YOU want to do..and enjoy yourself. You'll be glad you did. The next boyfriend will be a much better choice if you do this. Take your time. Good Luck!
2006-10-17 08:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself some time sweety. I know it's hard but you've got to keep yourself busy. Read books, listen to music, go bike riding, go see a movie. Whatever will keep your mind off of this hurtful situation. Getting yourself into another relationship too soon could prove disasterous. Take care of yourself first.
2006-10-17 08:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last thing you need to do is to get into another relationship right away. You need to take time to get over it and find yourself. Find happiness within yourself before you go looking for it in someone else.
2006-10-17 08:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just need some time to be single. Hang out with the girls for awhile. Let loose and be carefree so he's not on your mind. Someone right will come along.
2006-10-17 08:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by k.c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out, have fun...but maybe u should also think about the fact that you shouldn't need to have someone to feel complete...maybe you are co-dependant...if thats the case it may be healthy to try to stay single for a little while instead of jumping from one un-healthy relationship to the next for the sake of not feeling lonely...
2006-10-17 08:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by stephaniech24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop depending on other people for your entertainment! get out there and have some fun. screw him, he's a loser. Once a cheat, always a cheat. There are way to may other men out there!
2006-10-17 08:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to any dating site. Make a hot profile of yourself and wait for the boys to come running! They will!
2006-10-17 08:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur in Los Angeles and over 18 email me we'll go party and see what happens.
2006-10-17 08:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋