2006-10-17 08:45:44 · 22 answers · asked by deedo304 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her you kicked her to the curb for a reason and ask her why she can't accept rejection and GO AWAY. Being friends with ex's just screws up your next relationship. End it. Be brutal if you MUST but end it.
2006-10-24 18:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on this ex's personality. If you see her to be a stalker that won't leave you alone, no need for closure, just cut your ties now.
If she's a good friend, is reasonable, and can handle rejection, than feel free to let her know how you feel and confirm that it's over. To make the moment less uncomfortable, throw in a compliment, like, "You are so amazing. You deserve someone who will love you with everything they have."
2006-10-17 15:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If at all possible always attempt to remain friends with your ex. It's a challenge, but think about the wonderful experience you two shared. There had to be something special initially to capture your attention. Yes it didn't work out; but unless she cheated, lied, or killed someone; remain friends. Tell her the truth, that you are not interested in a relationship other than friendship. One more thing, its always a plus to future mates, when you can be friends after a special relationship has ended.
2006-10-17 15:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you. If you don't want to string her along, maybe recommend some distance so that she can begin the healing process. If you do talk to her, keep it strictly platonic and don't talk about your personal life, like if you start dating others. Be a friend to her and understand that getting over someone you love takes time, can be painful and you should treat the situation with respect.
2006-10-17 15:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a nice guy you will move on and let her heal.... I know that I tried to still talk to my ex who i still love and she was nice about it. But it still hurt every time until i decided I just couldnt talk to her.
2006-10-17 15:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Big No. All questions should be so easy.
If she is still in love then she is always going to think that there is a chance you two will get back together if she can keep you in her life. If you want to help her move on, you have to move on.
2006-10-17 15:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't hurt to talk to her as long as you keep the contact limited. If you spend too much time with her, she may get the wrong idea. Keep being gentle but friendly, she will get the picture eventually. Keep being a nice guy!
2006-10-17 15:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, that's totally up to you. consider this: Do you enjoy the time you spend with her? Are you in danger financially, physically, mentally, or emotionally, legally in ANY way by conversing with her.? And remember, you can always change your mind later as long as you don't "burn any bridges" -- And don't pretend you don't know what I mean--you know if you're being a jerk or she's being a "wackowoman"
2006-10-17 15:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by Clycs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would be the point in talking to her? If you do, then she will think that you two may get back together...you don't want to give her false hopes because the end result can be terrifying
2006-10-17 15:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no harm in talking to your ex, you must have cared for her once, where is the harm? just make her aware that you only want her friendship and put the ball in her court. if she could not cope seeing you and being friends then she would come to her own conclusion to stop seeing you. its that simple.
2006-10-17 15:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by Veronica C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋