2006-10-17 08:44:59 · 7 answers · asked by Braveheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well that sucks, but not all girls are into money and cars!! If you want a really nice girl then all you have to do is be yourself and make her laugh. In my opinion, those are the 2 best qualities a guy can have!!
Good Luck!!
2006-10-17 08:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, yes, I remember that time well. It was 20 years ago when I had no car and no money. I would go out almost every weekend. You need to get a friend(I had a brother) to take you around. Just go places and meet people and be honest and be yourself. If you are worthy, the lady will understand.
You MUST have a future. By that I mean that you must be doing something so that later you will have a car and money.
Good luck.
Be careful. I actually stumbled upon a 'Sugar Mama' that way. Not a good situation, really.
2006-10-17 08:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by RJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I agree with her....you still have a chance. However, depending on how old you are, your chances are slim. My girlfriend and I were just talking about it the other day. Some guy had tried to talk to her and when she asked him if he had a job he said "I'm working on it" and she walked off. I don't know many girls who would talk to a guy in that category. I mean, I don't have a car either but I definitely have a job. Personally I wouldnt want a grown man with no money. I have bills to pay and things to do I don't have time to mess around with a broke man. Now i'm not saying that i look for guys with money so I can spend theirs. No, I just want to be able to go out and not have to pay for my date all the damn time. My boyfriend and I been together for almost 3 years and I gladly split the bill with him when we go out. Or when he does me favors I give him gas money. I even find it annoying to have broke FRIENDS let alone a broke guy. When money is always an issue that really puts a lot of stress on the relationship. Most women would rather stay away from it especially if they got problems of their own.
2006-10-17 08:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by kianni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want a girl who wants you just for your ride or money, cause there will always be someone with more and she will leave you for him. As for the car and money, if you are still young, nothing is wrong with getting your parent to drop you and her off. If you're too old for that, make friends with someone and double date or pick a location near her that you guys can walk to. Joining a youth group or club is great because they offer activities with transportation, so you can ask a girl (or even better a girl already in the group) to the activity. As far as money, girls love your time, so a homemade picnic in a free park is so much better than a movie where you can't get to know each other. Finally, as for finding a girl like this, try making friends with girls first. You can judge their personality and whether they would make good girlfriends. Then it will be much easier to ask her out (she will already be used to you and doing things together). Don't give up and I promise you will find a girl that values what you have to offer. Good luck!
2006-10-17 08:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sure you can. having a relationship is not about having money or a car. If you love the person then you shouldn't care about what they don't have, and if the person really loves you then they shouldn't care about what you don't have. There are plenty of ways to have fun without that stuff. You just have to work together and be creative.
2006-10-17 08:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by shadowed_desire_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u still have a chance,
most girls want a guy with a car,and money,
but some just want the sweet,guys.
just be urself,not some one ur not.If you like a girl,start off by getin to know her first,dont just jump in to it ''hey i like you and i dont even know ur name''kinda deal.
{thats sooo agervating}
then when u get to know her start out by askin her if shes free for lunch,or mabey the weekend.
[Befor you do this get enofe info that you know what places she likes to eat at and mabe if she likes movies.](hey mabey she might have a car lol)
but hey if this dont help ask agin sometime.
2006-10-17 08:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
L@@K at it this way if they want you for your car and money then they don't want you just what you got.. So I say you can get a g/f just hang in there. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-10-17 08:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋