Someone please advise me! I was in a FWB situation and I am head over heels for the guy. Have been the whole time. In so many words I have mentioned to him that I liked him (more then the FWB situation) and wanted to see if there was anything between us. He told me he cared about me. Still we had our thing and still both dated other people. I only slept with him. I think it is the same on his end but that isn't fact. Now he is telling me that he is actually interested in someone else and we can't see each other anymore. I think I'm going to throw up. I told him cool and hope it all works out. (I am such a liar!!!!) Now I'm miserable. Should I just let this play out or fight for him. Is it to late since he's apparently anamoured by someone else and wants to give it that old college try? I like him so much. But is it enough when there is so much at stake?
2006-10-17 08:33:39 · 1 answers · asked by Freespirit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, I know it hurts, but you agree to a FWB situation and that usually means that the 'agreement' can be disolved without major drama. If he was having sex with you but looked for someone else ... sorry hun, he does not feel the same way, he cares about you as a friend, not more.
There is always a small change he will miss you and realize that he was happy with you, if there was more there for him, but the only way to find that out is to give him space. Also, please try to not 'lure' him back with sex - guy's make poor decisions when being offered to get laid and he may do or say something he does not mean.
2006-10-17 10:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋