What should I do about my ex?

Question

I dated this great guy who I thought was my soul mate. We got along in every aspect. We really liked each other and eventually told each other that we loved each other. We talked about how we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together and everything. Then last month, he started to act funny. I wondered what was going on. I questioned him and even asked him outright, if he was interested in someone else. He told me I was insecure and didn't know if he could be with someone insecure. So, for weeks, we went back and forth with him telling me he loved me and then saying he was confused, until a couple weeks ago, he broke up with me. I found out later, that the ex girlfriend of 1 1/2 years, asked him to get back together, the same time he started to act funny. They were apart for 6 months when we started to date and he assured me he was over her.They had a bad relationship, and broke up several times. Now he says, he never got over her. I want him back. What should I do?

Answer 1

Maybe you should get over him after a while, because he made his decision. Maybe you guys weren't meant to be, I'm sorry to say. If however, you really do love him and all, you should be able to accept his decision and be happy for him. Besides, if things doesn't work out with him and his ex, you're always there for him. And then maybe he'll realize how special you are and would hold on to you. If he does come back to you, it's meant to be, if not, then you're not meant to be. There will be others who will also be right for you and in due time you'll find out. :)