Who is important?

Question

When you have to choose between your family, husband/boyfriend and friends. All three pulling in different directions.

Answer 1

consider the importance of each iin your life ... however, I recommend the following order for best outcomes:

you, your husband, your family, your boyfriend, your friends ... no matter what, do not choose anything that goes against your core beliefs or for the purpose of keeping a friend over what you feel comfortable with. If a friend uses their friendship as a basis to manipulate you, that is not being a friend, that is controlling you for their own agenda.