how do i tell my friend i like her?

Question

i have a friend who i spend a lot of time with. i wanna tell her my feelings tha i like her. how do i do it because i donk think she wnats a bf right now cuz wer both incollege. i wanna pursue a relationship past frienship even if it cant be dating. how do i ask her?

Answer 1

throw ur underwear at her then smack her over the head with ur shoe

Answer 2

Take her to a place that she really likes...make the day or night nice for her (if you can see her face to face that is)...and then just tell her that you really respect her as a person and you have found that over time you have come to have feelings for her and you would like to know if she would like to try to have a relationship with you...let her know that the best of relationships start as friends (which you guys have done) and see what happens...however, take into consideration how you will feel if she doesn't want what you want...are you willing to just remain friends then?...make sure to tell her that if she doesn't feel the same you will understand and would like to remain friends...so some things to thing about...I wish the best for you...hope this helps and good luck to you :)

Answer 3

Well before you ask her you have to think about the fact that you may lose her as a friend..i have seen people be bf for a long time date and have horrible breakups..but if you really like her..take her out, since you are her bf, somewhere you know that she would love, talk to her, then tell her how you feel..good luck.

Answer 4

I had these two friends in college, let's call them John and Mary. John was so in love with Mary and wanted to have a meaningful, sincere and loving relationship with her. After a year he ended up telling her (I told him not too!) how he felt about her...she was so embarrassed and she told him that she did not feel the same way he did about her, she looked at him like a brother. He was so crushed by her answer. The end result, all of us stopped hanging out with each other.

Answer 5

Send her an SMS that you love her n stuff...If she will give a positive response be happy n enjoy. If she gets angry, tell her that "Sorry I was very drunk yesterday night. I sent you the sms when I was not in my senses". Then if she says that "People speak the truth when they are drunk".It means she is interested in you. But if she says "Oh ok no problem" then your friendship wont be over atleast.

Answer 6

Y.O.U. A.S.K. H.E.R. O.U.T. O.N A. D.A.T.E.

or you ask buddy to ask pal to hint at her cousin who works in the hair salon of the brother of the aunt her sister's boyfriends mate who has seen her in the mall to pass her a note asking if she a) likes you or b) doesn't like or c) thinks your cute or d) none of the above or e) all of the above including d which would be a paradox but you don't care because you think shes really cute and just want to take her out on a date without being humiliated.

nah...I'd ask her out if I were you.

We women thinks its sweet.

Answer 7

i think u should tell her and be sure to make it clear that if she doesn't feel the same way that u still want to be friends u never know she might feel the same way but you'll never know unless u try. if u don't try she'll end up with someone else and then you'll feel like she should be with u not him. so tell her before another guy does

Answer 8

Try set up a real date with her, intead of just casual hang outs. Starting doing more physical contacts subtlely. Get physically closer to her, and observe if she is comfortable with you being inside her zone.

Answer 9

Tell her you have been dreaming about her every night. When morning comes you wake up in a tent. She'll get the message.

Answer 10

Just be honest w/ her.. If you both spend a lot of time together, I don't doubt she feels the same way...

Answer 11

Try writing her a letter of how you feel. That is the best way that I know how. I love it when my husband writes me notes about how he feels. Just try it.