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met this girl in myspace - INSANE HOT, funny, CRAZY MY TYPE... she invited me to her birthday party.
she was fairly drunk when i got there but i did talk to her and flirt a bit etc.
A day or so later she emails me her numbers (home and cell)
i call leave message, she calls back we talk for 20min then i have to let her go.
all this time im going FRANTIC over an art show i have.. i still need another piece so ask if i can use one of her pics she has up as a basis or a painting.
says shes flattered and says yes
i invite her to the reception (last sat) she says she coming no doubt but didnt. i get a call yesterday from her appologizing 4 the no show but says she had to go out of townblahblahblah...
however tells me she REALLY wants to see the finished piece and basically asks me out.
i tell her i can on thurs and we can grab drinks or dinner after. basically if a guy painted a pic of you, you seemed to like him etc would you expect a kiss, want 1 from him, or what.
how 2 handle?

2006-10-17 07:57:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Couple of things to clarify the answers thus far......
-i didnt paint the pic of her cause i attached or close to her... i really NEEDED another pic for the show and had an awesome composition in mind that her pic worked for.
-didnt plan, wasnt trying to get, etc a date with her BY painting the pic- hence the uncertainty of this situation.
-and yes we are both in our mid to late 20's so more than of age;)
thanks for the help

2006-10-17 09:16:48 · update #1

12 answers

First off you are way too attached to some one that you just met.
She was a no show.
If her excuse was legitimate then yes you should see her again.
You painted a picture of her.
She should be flattered.
If she is not that she is not appreciative of your talent or just plain ignorant.

Deserving a kiss or getting one is some thing that you can only work out for your self.

My suggestion is this:

Go to dinner.
Enjoy your self.
Talk with her about the show. (Congrats on the show!)
Show her the painting you did if you have it.
Take a special trip to the gallery.
Be silly and playful. Improvise.

If you truly want a kiss you are creative figure out a way to get one.

Might I suggest a painting lesson at your place with edible paint…
Paint a small figure on her face frown like you made a mistake.
Lean in make sure the mistake is near her mouth or neck than erase the mistake with your tongue.
Then go back continue to paint.
Drag the brush against her bottom lip first like you would with your tongue when kissing asking permission to deepen the kiss.
Then drag the brush against her tom lip frown like you made another mistake painting then kiss the mistake away.

One kiss for you
One hell of an erotic memory for her

That way you will not be forgotten

I give this answer hoping ever one is of age to do this.

2006-10-17 08:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0 0

I really dont know if sharing a kiss with some one you like should be planned like this, leave these decisions for the moment, if you keep thinking about the kiss only, you wont be able to enjoy your evening out with her. First see how the date goes, and then if it seems right, do it!!!

2006-10-17 15:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by cappuccino 2 · 0 0

It depends on what type of relationship you're looking for. If you really care about her I would wait it out and see how things develop. If when you go out with her at some point you feel like you want to kiss her do it gently and see her reaction. You will definitely know if she's ok with it (or actually wants more of it) or if it was too soon for her. Good luck!

2006-10-17 15:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by strawberryshortcake82 1 · 0 0

I would expect a kiss but not too soon but not too late and i would want him to ask me out again and we would be seeing each other as friends first then move on to a relationship

2006-10-17 15:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 · 0 0

Your fishing here and your pulling the line too hard. let it go and wait.

just relax and enjoy a date. after the date ask her if she would enjoy a home cook dinner and a ...whatever like a show or something. Then after ward make your move.

show your skill as a man and a cook.

good luck

2006-10-17 15:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0 0

well it is more of a thing that you gotta be in the situation to know.. i would say you have to give her a kiss, some how, if you dont you may end up in the friend zone buddy. thats never good, you cant get out of the friend zone...

2006-10-17 15:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by lpxerounderground 3 · 0 0

I don't think that I would expect a kiss, I would prolly want to kiss him though. When you go out with her just go along with it and kiss her when it feels right.

2006-10-17 15:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0 0

I would want one but you have to feel the date out and if everything is going cool then go for its something that you just know when it happens

2006-10-17 15:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Drea 3 · 0 0

kiss her!!!! Maybe she didn't show b/c sometimes sh*t really does happen.

I think the best kinds of kisses are the ones you least expect.

2006-10-17 15:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by autumn 5 · 0 0

see how the date goes if she's giving you eyes that say " i like you alot" then go for the kiss. by the way it's sweet that you pianted her and I hope it goes your way

2006-10-17 15:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by blar! 1 · 0 0

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