see, i'm currently single and looking for a good fun relationship, my last ones have kinda gone phtt, i'm kinda overweight but people still say i'm cute, i think my best trait is my sense of humor, any suggestions on how to woo the ladies, maybe reel in a good one, i'm the fat guy everybody loves, but nobody dates
2006-10-17 07:55:29 · 14 answers · asked by krash726 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what, I like you already because your honest and loyal about your situation. I myself have dated overweight guys. To me its not about the looks, its all about personality. You know, don't change for anybody, just be yourself and wait. I know, I know, waiting could take a life time, but if you rush it, then you could end up with some one who doesnt really like you. Just wait cutie some one is out there for you.
2006-10-17 08:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by Gabbrielle S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off dont listen to the idiots with the weight watchers comments. If you want to lose weight do it for you, not because you feel you have to so you can get a girl.
My advice for finding someone.. avoid chatrooms, bars and clubs are usually good for a one night stand and not much else.
Try online dating sites, i know it seems kinda desperate but who cares.
Find a singles group in your area or even take up a part time job where you interact with the public alot, you're bound to meet women that way.
Try hanging out at the mall on Fridays and Saturdays..
And last but not least.. don't worry so much about how you look even the super studs get rejected, it's just life.
Just be yourself and try to be confident, because trust me, women love confidence.
But remember don't mistake confidence for *********, because noone likes a cocky ahole.
2006-10-17 08:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. I was a cheerleader in school...quite popular still very nice looking and for the past 8 years have been with the most wonderful man. He says he was everyones "big brother" or "best friend" and the nice pretty girls wouldn't go out with him. He's also a big guy. Well Im glad they didn't get him 'cause he's all mine. Just hang in there, the right girl will show up right when you don't expect it....and she'll love you for you.
2006-10-17 08:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by hotsavannah21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all get rid of the frown on you avatar. It makes you look
grumpy. Get out more Try some fun activities. Take some fun
classes. Join a date service. Check to see if your Church has a
singles group. They always have fun things to do.
2006-10-17 08:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's rough...I am the same way only I am a woman...But I like to believe that there is some girl out there who wants a man who's neck looks like a pack of hot dogs...(To paraphrase Adele Gibbons) She's out there boo...Keep searching
2006-10-17 08:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the beginning, learn dribbling. then, ask some1 to play with you 'reason you will no longer be able to try this on my own. prepare chest passing nad bounce passing. then prepare taking photographs and getting re-bounds. and once you're solid in all that stuff, you are able to prepare the real interest with your friends. it incredibly is merely fundamentals and attempt to income passing dribbling and taking photographs and positively making it in in the time of purely one week because you have have been given plenty to artwork on! solid success:)
2016-12-13 10:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be respectful, kind, considerate, thoughtful, polite, and funny. Compliment women and do nice things for them. If you take all of my suggestions, then you will land a good one. As long as you don't weigh more than 300 pounds. If you do, then get in shape because yu'll add years to your life.
2006-10-17 08:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lorraine_us 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My advice is this...attempt to lose the weight. no one can zap it off, you have to make the effort if you want it. there are alternatives to losing your weight for the girls...that would be to develop your personality. they can't like you unless you give them something to like. also, i'd suggest getting to know more people, and find someone to accept you for who you are instead of who you could be, or who they want you to be. your life is yours to control, no one else's. good luck, buddy, email me if you need anymore free advice.
2006-10-17 08:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to Shannon our what ever her name is you should be yourself there is a girl out there for everyone just takes time but you could be more out try to hang out with everyone believe me that will help it help my best friend
2006-10-17 08:35:53 · answer #9 · answered by Kayce 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey! how's it goin? just be yourself and the ladies will come, and you said you're funny, that's awesome! someone WILL come! and i hope you find that special girl! believe me, everyone is looking for someone!
2006-10-17 08:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by george_lucky16_star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋