2006-10-17 07:55:25 · 13 answers · asked by jumpin monkey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What will heal you is time. Try to find hobbies you love to pass the time until then (video games, time with friends, a good book). I promise...this time next year you will say to yourself...."What the hell did I see in her?". Those feelings will pass. I've been there a thousand times......it passes.....and there is always someone else who will come along. So, try to find something fun to do to bring your spirits up and to pass the time until you feel better.
2006-10-17 08:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of your sweats and get out of the house. Go have fun with your buddies. Have a couple of drinks. It's tough when you get dumped but hang in there. It's not the end of the world. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. You can't live without her, I think that's the problem. She could feel that if she doesn't get out now, she'll never be able to get out. You can live without her. Life didn't start when she walked into it. Remember that. Hold your head up.
2006-10-17 08:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't live without her?
Are you sure?
Think about it....
Seems like one of those codependant relationships. And you were the codependant one if you can't live without her.
Look, there's a ton of stuff you need to learn about what happened. The only way past this is to learn about yourself so that you don't make the same mistakes again. Or else you will.
Try dating other women ASAP, that will help with the feeling helpless part, but work on yourself, so you won't NEED to live with or without anyone again.
2006-10-17 08:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could call her dad and tell him what's occurring because of the fact this behaviour could desire to be notified to the determine or mum or dad of the lady buddy you're presently seeing. psychological treatment appears like a thank you to pass additionally. i'm in this subject actual now the place I have not have been given any motivation to do something yet take a seat around till college comes up. fortunately, my mom and dad can handle to pay for to permit me study and locate what activity i'm attracted to! yet on your case, although, she's no longer giving something out in the relationship and in basic terms taking what you grants her. you're giving yet you're no longer taking something from her; there is not any honest floor. To be ordinary, it form of feels she's taking good thing about your money which you permit her hire. i could say, "it is the two my money or me which you're desiring. in case you're desiring me meaning you will start up making plans to make certain somebody approximately your issues, get a job, and start up paying the charges then you definately can stay right here. in case you're desiring my money which you're presently depressingly moping approximately in my domicile, stay unemployed, and function me at debt threat then you definately can kindly, in case you could, pass away with out one moan of a breath." i think of that'll inspire her lazy, mopey, and loopy *** off the settee. If no longer she's no longer worth one penny of the bill in that domicile you 2 stay in. If my boyfriend ever did this he does no longer even make it in a month. believe me, she extra effective get inspired or pass away!
2016-10-19 21:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same thing with my boyfriend right now. We're on again off again all the time. And when we're off, he's says really horrible things that make me want to kill myself. I've had a rough life as it is, and was just raped 2 weeks ago. I don't think I want to get over Chris. But if you want to get over your ex, just think about all the things that she did that were bitchy. Absolutely do not remember the good times or memories right now. Think about how you'll be better off by thinking about the bad.
2006-10-17 08:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard feeling to live with but it does get better with time. The one thing that I know helped me in the past was to keep myself busy and in close proximity to my friends and family.
Time is all you need and believe it or not... thats all it really takes. That and getting on with your life the best way you can.
Good Luck!!
2006-10-17 08:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another girlfriend....and don't bore her with tales of your ex.
Be sure she's the type you ex hated. You know, younger, bigger chest etc.
And by the way, relationships end all the time. You WILL get over her. Pull yourself together man!!
2006-10-17 08:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by Wil T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well me being a girl i've also felt that feeling before but its something you eventually get over.Try keeping busy and just being with friends.When you get over it youre gonna look back and realize how dumb it was to think you cant live without anyone,trust me.
2006-10-17 08:06:20 · answer #8 · answered by sweetpinkness2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another girlfriend. Only this time get a nicer , better looking one. =0)
Hey! Go for the good looking ones. Most guys pass them up because they are intimidated. So a lot of good looking girls are lonely.
MaNdYb.........DUMP THE GUY!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 08:06:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET INVOLVED IN OTHER STUFF!
You should be busy in all kinds of stuff so you get your mind off her. Join an gym, take an art class, learn to play an instrument, go camping, etc. Also, surround yourself with friends who will be there to support you.
2006-10-17 08:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋