why do woman think that they can change a man?

Answer 1

Generally, people do change for the ones they love.

Let me ask this question:
In the song with Teairra Marie, she sings this line: "Do I have to apologize for my emotions?"


That tells me that she thinks because she is emotionally driven, she doesn't have to change, and her man should just deal with it.

Hypothetically asking:
Is this the way most women think?
If it is, then we men are living in such a hypocritical environment. Why? While we are forced and asked to change, we are following rules created by someone who won't follow them. If women don't like what we do, or who we are, as men, we are expected to adjust ourselves and change into someone else. Now don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that men shouldn't grow up. However, if we are accustomed to hobbies, attitude, behaviors, likes and dislikes, we shouldn't be forced to change because there is a difference of opinion. Unfortunately this is not the case.

Also, if we let out a smart remark, get a little attitude, or whatever, we go through World War III. There is NO ONE in this forum that can convince me otherwise.

On the other hand, if they have a LOT of attitude, get smart with us, or whatever, we have to deal with it?? We have to get over it??

On top of that, we have to deal with, AND we have to adjust to their behaviors, hobbies, attitudes, likes and dislikes. So we have to deal with it all, AND we have to adjust to it all. But, we've done ALL of the changing as well.

And you call that equality?
Right. And somebody is yelling "Be a man" right now. It's funny how we have to be a man ONLY at our expense.

Answer 2

My old boyfriend would always lament about this. Truth is I had no desire to 'change' him. People naturally evole as they learn what's acceptable and what isn't. When I'd get irked over him forgetting or not mentioning an anniversary of birthday and tell him I wish he'd be more thoughtful I was trying to change him. But when I'd speak my mind contrary to one of his friends opinions on something (Whether or not women can appreciate cold weather. Really. This Jacka$$ thought women didn't know what cold felt like.) he'd take me aside later and ask me to be less vocal - and that's not trying to change me? You should be able to change for yourself and those you love. If not, you're stagnant and a complete waste of everyone's time. Including your own.

Answer 3

Those women are usually married to alcoholics or drug addicts.But even in that case they got to want to change the habit not who they are.But people can't change other people that's just stupid people are who they are and you should take them or leave them as them the way they are.

Answer 4

because they love them, and they think that by loving them and giving the men everything, they would change to what the woman wants. sadly in most cases that doesn't happen.