I had a little tiff with the gf this weekend and haven't heard from her until today. I said some things that were on my mind anyways, but after a few adult bevs, I think it came out a little stronger than I intended. Hell, strong enough that I haven't talked to her for two days. I am going to see her tonight (finally!) but know I've got some serious ***-kisssing to do. I keep hearing people talk about how you have to let go and they come back, and I think this could be a time for that, but I'm not sure (never tried it, I guess). So my question is (esp for the ladies) is it better to say I want you with me but I'll wait for you to decide if that's still what you want, or should I say, Look, I effed up BIG time, but I can't stand the thought of losing you and I promise it will never happen again? Which is more appropriate?
2006-10-17 07:30:01 · 2 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u should speak from ur heart, let it come naturally. if u think about it alot, u will lost it and say things that u didn't meant to say. let it come from ur heart.
2006-10-17 07:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it would be good if you let her decide on her own. but you could do the @SS-kissing too. for example if you leave it like that and let her decide on her own, she might make the wrong decision, but if you go and tell that it will not happen again she might reconsider taking you back.
2006-10-17 15:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋