You know that saying once a cheater always a cheater. Of course you do. Well is there a chance that they won’t cheat ever again. Anyone been cheated on before and it never happened again?
I believe any man who cheats need a woman to help him grow up and out of cheating. Who’s better than his loved one? Right?
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I was cheated on when his sister inlaw passed away in a car accident. he was 22 and she was 18..me i was 17. He told me he loved me but tried to start a relationship with this girl. She knew bout me but didnt care. She loves his neices and nephews and had the hots for my man.
He stopped seein her shortly after I found out, now he wants to marry me and have a house with me.
2006-10-17 06:37:13 · 35 answers · asked by mandi lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The root of cheating is dishonesty... so he may also be doing other things as well, take care of yourself.
2006-10-17 06:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by dollface 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe that everyone grows up sometime. But if they have cheated once and you did nothing about it then yes he might do it again because he know that you won't do anything about it. The reason people cheat is because they are not getting something from the person their with so they go find it some where else.So if you feel he might cheat you need to talk to him and find out why so then you can close that part of your life. And if he gets mad say you need to know because only people that are unhapping cheat and you don't want that same thing to to come up again. I say I don't mean the cheating the part of why because you know that he needed something you could give him. And don't make it a bad thing. just talk so you know that both feel okay
2006-10-17 06:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys go into a marriage with cheating envolved then it will continue. For the most part, that is true. I was with a guy for 3 ans 1/2 years and he didnt get right and stop cheating til about the last 1/2 of the year, maybe a little more. But by then I was so tired of that mess that I called it quits. So maybe before yall bet married you should set a goal, maybe like get married on the 1 year anniversy since the last time he cheated. True love can conquer all but he ahs to want to stop himself and for himself.
2006-10-17 06:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUE! Once a cheater Always a Cheater! Why would you want to chance it. He said he loved you, well cheating is not love. Nothing against you but SOME girls can be really silly when it comes to things like this. Think about it, your probably to good for this guy if he cheated. get away
2006-10-17 06:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. Some people cheat because they think they can. Some people cheat because they are addicted to sex. I don't know if your friend will cheat again. I have been thru this, and I think that given the right circumstances that they will cheat again. Maybe I'm wrong, but this is what i think about mine. You have to figure this out for yourself, everybody doesn't know this man like you do! If you think there is a chance just know that you will be hurt if you stay, and if you don't think he will do it again I Hope you have a wonderful marriage! Good Luck!
2006-10-17 06:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by panda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..............Some men cheat as a lifestyle and some men may never do it again. You have to use your judgment on that one, but let me tell you, the statement you made "I believe any man who cheats need a woman to help him grow up and out of cheating." This is crazy, you are not going to stop him from cheating no matter what you do or say, it is his choice and his decision and has to be his consequences if he does cheat. What you said, made me think of what woman say when they are being abused, "Its not his fault, I should have done something different, he just needs me to.....
Get the point. Don't let him off the hook for cheating, make him own it and take responsibility for it.
2006-10-17 06:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I would like to think so, but the cheaters I have known haven't shown me otherwise, yet. In your situation, it doesn't sound good. If he had to wait for you to find out... sorry. He will likely try to learn from the mistakes he made in the past and not get caught. Also, if you accept his proposals, it will send a message to him that he can buy you off after he makes a mistake. After something like this happens, if you decide to stay with him you should be waiting a while before you making any choices that will have long term consequences. These things will make it even harder for you to turn away from him should he cheat again.
2006-10-17 06:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by greeiore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes this saying is true it depends on the guy. Just keep an eye out. He might do it again, but he may not. If he you find any signs that he is cheating then go with your heart and leave him. If he that kind of person that you can't stop from cheating then he's just saying that he wants to marry you and have kids with you cause he wants you to forgive him and he feels if he says this you will forgive him. Good Luck!
2006-10-17 06:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is true. Been through it a couple of times. My last relationship the guy did not tell me is had a girlfriend. He was from out of state and came here to work. After a week of being together he finally told me he had a girlfriend but was not happy with her. He ended up leaving her for me. He promised me he would never do that to me. Well guess what he did and even worse. He messed around with this girl during the time I was out of town for my mothers funeral. But sometimes you have to go through bad to get to good. Now I'm in a wonderful relationship and will be getting married next year to my soul mate.
2006-10-17 06:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by suejean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong! Any man who cheats needs help, and it is not the responsiblity of that person's loved one to do so.
Once a cheat, always a cheat. So it would be up to you if that is the kind of relationship you want to be involved with - a love triangle. What a rotten way to have to live...always wondering who he has been sleeping with. It's disrectful and degrading.
2006-10-17 06:47:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no because i was a cheater on my 1st husband and know i am married again and i don't have any desire to cheat ever again. My ex husband never knew that i cheated. I just will never do it again
2006-10-17 06:47:01 · answer #11 · answered by wendy u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋