I have a friend, she has a man. She told me how an ex boyfriend of hers, showed up at her house and asked her out. She agreed to go out with him. What she didn't know is that her ex boyfriend works with her man. The ex went to work bragging about the date and how he was going to get her back. Her current man heard this and got mad. He was real mad that she went out with this guy behind his back. I told her that i didn't blame her man for getting mad, because that seemed a bit sneaky. But she thinks nothing was wrong with it. What do you all think?
2006-10-17 06:34:04 · 11 answers · asked by henryskia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that her man has every right to be mad. if they are in a commited relationship she shouldn't be going out with another man ex or not. obviously she was trying to hide it, so there is definately something wrong with that. tell your friend her man has every right to be mad. ask her how she would feel if he went out with one of his ex's behind her back.
2006-10-17 06:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's got a major problem with the definition of commitment. There are certain people who, if they don't understand the concept, should not go around accepting to be someone's girlfriend/boyfriend if they don't plan on being faithful. It doesn't matter if you're dating or married, you say yes it means yes. It doesn't mean, "sure I'll date you until someone better comes along, or my ex shows up at the door."
2006-10-17 13:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask her how she would feel if he did he same thing with one of his old girlfriends. And what it would feel like for her if the ex worked with her and came into work bragging about how the ex was going to get him back. She would feel hurt, betrayed, and humiliated in front of her co-workers. Anyone would feel the way he does!
2006-10-17 13:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it was wrong of her to go out with her ex, but I do think it was wrong of her not to tell him. My fiancee and I have an extremely wonderful relationship to where I can tell him I'm going out with my ex and he wouldn't think twice about it. We have that trust and bond amongst each other. If they didn't then there might be a problem. You should tell her to put herself in his shoes and ask her how she would feel if the roles were reversed.
2006-10-17 14:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the agreement that she has with her present "man". Are they exclusive or free to date other people. If the answer is exclusive then she cheated on her boyfriend and he should dump her. If they're free to date then it's not his business.
2006-10-17 13:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if she had an exclusive relationship with her man. If they had an agreement on not dating anyone else, she was wrong. If not, she did nothing wrong.
2006-10-17 14:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by stariei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL are they engaged? LOOKS like that man needs to Stake a claim or shut up.
2006-10-17 13:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is wrong it was sneaky. He has every right to be upset.
2006-10-17 14:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by papabear569 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHAT I THINK.... I THINK YOU SHOULD TELL YOUR FRIEND WHAT I THINK....:
SHE'S A
TRIFILIN HEIFER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OF COURSE THAT WAS SNEAKY SHE DIDNT WANT HER BOYFRIEND TO KNOW.....SHE'S TRICKIN........AND THAT SERVES HER RIGHT THAT HER BOYFRIEND FOUND OUT.....HE CANT TRUST THAT GIRL....HE NEEDS TO GET AWAY FROM THAT...!!!!SOON....
2006-10-17 14:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by MADNESS!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends on the situation of the new relationship .. more infor please ...
2006-10-17 13:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by phenophiles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋