ok, so i met this girl at the mall...im 24 and shes 18...after thinking about things long and hard i decided to give things a shot...so now we are seeing each other...we live about 30 mins apart....but anyway she is from a tiny town of 40 ppl and said her phone doesnt work at home. sweet as i am, i called to leave a voicemail tellin her to have a goodnight...well the phone rang and there was no answer..although it is something really dumb, i feel i been lied to and i dont wanna deal w/ another liar (she lives w/ parents, so maybe thats what it is)...anyway i am just confused if i wanna go on or not...and if i should bring it up to her to see what she says or not. i been burned and i dont want to be burned again. and plz, if u dont have anything smart to say dont say it. thanks every1!
2006-10-17 06:32:56 · 3 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't you think 18 is a little young? Anyway cell phones, depending on the carrier, don't have very good reception in rural areas so she may be telling the truth. However, if there is something that you feel uncomfortable with in your relationship, you should get it out there in the open instead of speculating. Good luck!
2006-10-17 06:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by slow-n-sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, what the girl above said has some truth to it. I'm not here to judge your taste in women, but 18 with a 24 year old, you both are worlds apart. She's either still in HS or just getting out. Think bout it, your priorities are very different. That will definitely cause problems later on down the road. You sound to me like you have some baggage from past relationships "I don't wanna deal with another liar" - that sent up a great big huge red flag to me - Look, if you plan to have any kind of meaningful happy relationship with ANYONE, even this 18 year old, you need to get over those bitter feelings you're harboring because someone in the PAST hurt you badly. Remind yourself that not everyone is going to be like your ex. This will prevent you from overreacting and possibly ruin a potentially good relationship.
2006-10-17 07:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't seem happy as you should be. It seems this is making you miserable worrying. Horrible as it sounds move on.
2006-10-17 07:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋