I have a very busy job, which means working long and different hours day or night, dont get me wrong I love my work but, when i do get to go out its only ever into town where if i do meet a women it starts as a drunk bit of fun, then a quick fling then i get bored and end it, I am a young guy (20's) and want something more, I have a good job and house etc I think most of my life is sorted apart from that, help!!!
2006-10-17
06:32:42
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neil
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
Just commenting on the 2nd answer on here, I wouldnt say I go on the pull, it normally is just a case of I start talking to someone for what ever reason and go from there, it just seems to never go anywhere before a few weeks, i think im interested in them but then suddenly just get bored and dont want to see them any more
2006-10-17
06:46:57 ·
update #1
they say if you want to make it last wait at least a month before you sleep with someone.
this is so you take more time getting to know them to see if it really is worth it.
and it works
2006-10-17 06:42:10
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answered by Anonymous
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If that's what you want then you need to go for it. Don't just pick up some girl at the bar, make the effort to meet people in different places, and once you meet someone that you think you might like long term then stick with it. You can't force these things to happen, but you have to put in the effort or you are just going to continue in the same pattern.
And if that doesn't help have you considered the possibility that you are just not ready for a serious relationship yet?
I hope that helps. Just be patient something will work out in the end!
2006-10-17 13:45:07
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answered by Anonymous
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Congratulations on being sucessful at such a young age!! If you want to meet a woman to settle down with, you have to MAKE some time. You should know that every good thing takes an investment. Finding a good woman takes for you to invest some time and effort, not just going to the local bar for a couple hours one night a week. Go to church, or go to some other type of social event that interests you. A seminar maybe? What are you hobbies? Go to a car show? Or a sporting event. It's always nice to find a woman who loves sports!! It's nice to know that there are men out there who want more than a one night stand with a woman.
2006-10-17 14:47:19
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answered by ladystarrchild107 3
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ARE YOU MAD !!!!!
That is the best type of relationship to have, listen you are young enough to do and not get dragged into commitment,
The problem is that when you do find miss right then i will give it two months before you are itching like a hound dawg to get back out there. Settling down comes in time, I know somepeople that want to settle down straight away and some that take there time.
Jesus i am in my 30's and still do it. - just dont rush into it, dont forget a Leopard does not change its spots.
2006-10-17 13:44:59
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answered by Ross B 3
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if you're happy living like this is there a problem? if you'd found the Right Girl you'd know. you're just looking around. you're only young, so you have time to find someone special.
you sound like the perfect man - life sorted at 20? there are thousands of girls who would kill to be with you, so dont settle for the first to cross your path.
2006-10-17 15:52:37
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answered by jimi 4
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you havent met a women who has went against ur theory... you meet a gurl and she gives it up i dont think u have every been rejected... a girl that is so mysterious u just cant understand y she isnt like all the other girls....you need a girl who is spotenous different full of life and energy...which u seem to be lackin in all these other females
2006-10-17 14:42:18
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answered by Nena 4
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Your looking too hard.
How many times have you gone out for just a drink and the women seem to be giving you the eye everywhere?
And when your on the pull, it just seems so much more hard work.
Personally i think your much too young but each to their own.
2006-10-17 13:42:52
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answered by Anonymous
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You just haven't met the right person yet. As you say, you are young so have plenty of time to meet someone. Maybe you're looking too hard?
2006-10-17 14:38:23
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answered by Sandee 5
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the same thing happened me when i was younger, id have my eye on someone id get withthem and then id be bored immediately but i realise now that those people werent the right one for me, i met my current boyfriend and it all changed we togeth 3 yrs now i guess i ju shadnt met the right person. you sound like a good catch, dont worry theres someone out tehre for us all. jus have fun for now theres plenty of time to settle down
2006-10-17 13:53:38
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answered by Caz 4
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If you just go for a pull, that is all you get. If you want a relationship you have to invest time and energy. You have the choice.
2006-10-17 14:44:55
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answered by Starlight 4
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problem is your shagging these girls prior to developing any sort of deep attachment to them. add to that the fact you probably don't have a great deal of respect for them it's hardly surprising that none of them sustain your interst for very long. stop picking up women and start meeting women. there is a difference.
2006-10-17 13:44:57
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answered by silly billy 3
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