i've been with ths girl for the past 3yrs. recently, we have time off... i kip myself occupy with work and family while my gf occupy her tyme with this one particular guy.. we r now back together.. she told me that she met a new person but still into me n dun wanna leave me... she love me but cnt afford to lose the other guy. what shuld i do... i tried occupying my time with work n family etc but itz aint enuf. my frenz told me that i need to find myself a new girl.. is it true??
2006-10-17 06:23:18 · 7 answers · asked by iq jr. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES GET OVER HER AND MEET A NEW...SMART GIRL. SHES PLAYING YOU AND TRYING TO HAVE HER CAKE AND EAT IT TOO. ARE U WILLING TO SHARE A GIRL YOU LOVE? DONT JUST OCCUPY YOUR TIME WITH WORK AND THINGS. GO AND MEET PEOPLE. AT CHURCH, MOVIES, BOOKSTORES. AND YOU WILL SEE THAT YOU MEET SMARTER, MORE BEAUTIFUL WOMEN INTERNALLY THAT WAY. THIS MUST BE A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP IF SHE SAYS THE OTHER GUY IS MORE VALUABLE TO HER. PLEASE BE SMART AND DROP HER LIKE THE BAD HABIT SHE IS...DONT KEEP LETTING HER USE YOU AS A REBOUND. SHE IS NOT WORTH YOUR TIME
2006-10-17 06:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT?!?!
You are ready to accept her crap excuse to WANT you but CANNOT LEAVE OTHER GUY?
If you want to be a doormat ,then I would say, try harder to occupy your time with other things...
But if are serious about having a relationship, then I would think you need to rethink if someone as selfish as this is worth your time...
The fact that she cant want another person and REQUEST that you accept this aspect of her.. shows that SHE JUST DOEST LOVE YOU AS MUCH AS YOU THINK SHE DOES.. she doesnt love you enough.. if so, why are you still together with her?
Tat is personal opinion onli.. it is your life. you can do what you want or like.. but I wouldnt let people take advantage of me like tat because I learnt tat if we dun love ourselves, no one will love us..
2006-10-17 15:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, find a new girl right after you find a backbone. Seriously why do you care about some dumb bi*tch that cheated on you?
There are plenty of hot women out there for the taking!
2006-10-17 06:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, find a new girlfriend! And what do she mean she can't afford to kick the other guy to the curb. Man, she doesn't love you cause love would go homeless with you if she had to.
2006-10-17 06:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by Heaven 2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go
Give youself time to forget & heal, time is the best medicine.
Suggest you do not rush to get a girlfriend replacement , just see who is the right one who comes along, just open that option, but don't rush...
2006-10-17 16:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Rootbeer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she wants her bread buttered on both sides, and everybody knows that does not work. get rid of her and spare yourself some problems in the future
2006-10-17 06:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by Girly-Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are 100% correct. She is using you and you are letting her.
2006-10-17 06:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by Val 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋