Please girls I need to understand how your mind works this girl I love but has a bofriend told me I hope you don't get up set but please stop staring at me because you scare me. How can the looks I give her scare her I mean I would never hurt her. And also a little while after she asks me if I am alright. So she is scared of me but at the same time she is concerened for me what is going on please help.
2006-10-17 06:14:17 · 32 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No I am not staring at her boobs I stare into her eyes.
2006-10-17 06:25:52 · update #1
I also don't make faces I always seem to give the puppy dog eye look
2006-10-17 06:28:26 · update #2
And no she dose not think I am a wierdo because she knows that I am in love with her.
2006-10-17 06:47:22 · update #3
is she scared , like afraid of you or scared like she might want to be with you. maybe she likes you but is afraid to act on it because she already has a boyfriend????
2006-10-17 06:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She probably feels threatened because she already has a boyfriend and you know this, yet you stare. It probably isn't you per say, but the fact of all the stalkers that we read about and hear about on the news. I think that you should have a mutual friend let her know that you care for her. Also have that friend tell her that you do respect the relationship that she is in and wouldn't do anything to cause problems for her, but if she ever needs a friend that you will be there. Also, stop staring.
2006-10-17 06:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're creeping her out by staring at her constantly. It's unnerving to have anyone looking at you incessantly. Sure, YOU know you're innocent and harmless and loving, but SHE has no way of knowing that - actions speak louder than words, and the only thing your actions have proved to her is that you ignore her requests.
Face it, dude, she doesn't like you. She's in love with somebody else. She's not asking if you're all right because she cares about you - she's asking because she thinks you're insane or having a seizure or something. She wants you to stop.
If you really did love her, you wouldn't want to do anything to scare her or make her uncomfortable. Right now, you're just being a stalker.
2006-10-17 06:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you say "girls only" as you figured guys will mock you? Or because you hope that the girls replying will sympathise with you (FYI "to sympathise" means "to feel sorry for")? You're clearly creeping her out, and I find it amusing you have to ask, but the fact that you've asked suggests that you really have no idea what a mental case you are!
What makes you "love" her? Do you even know her?
2006-10-17 07:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by Andy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and find another girl - you probably only want this girl because shes taken. You are obviously making her feel uncomfortable especially as she has a boyfriend who she loves. You are obsessed and this can be very dangerous, that is why she is concerned for you. She sounds like a decent girl as she has not tried to lead you on and has been honest. Do yourself a favour and move on - she is NOT interested.
2006-10-17 06:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if this will help but, if your staring at her boobs and that then thats why your scaring her. Its not nice when a guys talking to your chest. Dont know if thats the problem in your case but i know of women going on about men doing that.
2006-10-17 06:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not be a weirdo, but there's lots of freaks out there that star at girls like that. Maybe you should stop doing it so obviously then it wouldn't upset her so much. If she doesn't love you i'd give up its a lost cause mate you will just get hurt!
2006-10-17 07:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are freaking her out and she doesnt like it.
i sugest you stop looking at her and get a new hobbie before she reports to to the police as a stalker
the more you keep being weird the more she will hate you.
face it you dont have a chance as she is already with a different guy.
stop looking at her and move on.
2006-10-17 07:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes you, and can't really explain it herself, scares me could really mean anything, not that she is actually scared of you, Just try not to stare at her so much and see what happens, just try and be friendly , say hi, and go with the flow, she has a bf, so you will just have to wait and see.good luck.
2006-10-17 06:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's scared that you are becoming obsessed by her. She doesn't want to deliberatly hurt your feelings but you are making her uncomfortable. She obviously thinks of you as a friend, so if you truly love her don't freak her out!
2006-10-17 06:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by Yaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Creepy... You creep her out. She doesnt like you buddy. Shes thinking your some weirdo staring at her all the time. She asked if your alright cause your not normal.
2006-10-17 06:23:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋