Me and my ex have been split for nearly a month, we decided there is still passion between us. And became " **** buddies" thing is I think I am falling for him all over again, I think he likes this other gurl but we get on so well. Should I get out before I get hurt?
2006-10-17 06:09:31 · 52 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are going to be hurt no matter what.
2006-10-17 06:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be good if you talk to him about you not wanting just to be ****buddies! See what he says! I came back with my ex, after a 4 year break, and so far it works fine. I had this fear of getting hurt as well again but the more I thought about it the more I came to the conclusion that you can get hurt by everybody! When me and my ex got together again we talked about things through. I communicated to him clearly what I wanted and what not! So, if you defenately know that he doesnt have feelings for you then bail out of there girl! How does he behave towards you? Does he call you regularly or does he only call when he wants.....u know! If thats the case....leave it! Hope it works out for you!
2006-10-17 06:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by bumblebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is others out there that you will be compatible with not just sexually but emotionally too. You are just at a comfortable state with him right now and that's normal. He will not come back when you are giving him what he wants. He will be noticing other girls and you will be hurt again when he finds his attention drawn to another. So you need to be looking for your mister right also. He may be a good guy and good in bed but he's not Mr. Right! Cut off the emotional ties with him and find what you deserve... someone else, someone better.
2006-10-17 06:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you say, that's a relationship that is not going to work. Get out and find a man that's right for you. I know that it's easier said than done, but keep trying. I've been there, had the courage to break up and now I'm happily married with a wonderful man.
2006-10-17 06:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by Grilla Parlante 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do not want to be used by him just for booty when you are way better than that. Especially if he has another girl in the picture, he is just using you. Don't let your feelings get hurt all over, GET OUT before you fall too hard.
2006-10-17 06:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As Iron Maiden said " RUN FOR THE HILLS"
F*** buddies never work, trust me......... That comes from experience mainly for the reason that you stated above. One part always gets all misty eyed again.
Have a make over and get back on the dating train !!!
2006-10-17 06:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Ross B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...you should never have an ex as a **** buddy, there is always old feelings that are going to spring back up! Get out and don't even try to be friends with him until you know that you can hang out with him, without feeling like you wanna get back together, your setting yourself up for heartbreak, you guys will not get back together in this situatuion, sorry
2006-10-17 06:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a good talk with him, see if you 2 are on the same page. Let him know you're sincere and see if he wants to patch things up, if not, i think you should move on. Like you say get out before you get hurt.
2006-10-21 04:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jordaan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See sex with the ex may be a good thing but if you are having feelings for him again i believe you need to stop here.
If the relationship didnt work before what is going to make it work now? ask yourself did absence make the heart grow fonder? or maybe you just werent over him like you belived before. if you fear he is seeing another girl then let it be, its 95 percent certain this will end in tears and to make sure that doesent happen again perhaps then stop before its too late.
DONT MUG YOURSELF stop now, sex is never the reason to go back.
2006-10-17 07:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Gary L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out before you get hurt AGAIN! He is using you don't fall for him he's an a** for using you. You should not have become f***buddies. Good Luck!
2006-10-17 06:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, keeping the whole sexual thing after the relationship is over is not always good, like you said you are developing feelings for him all over again, and what if he does not feel the same? And is sexually active with other girls? I would suggest that you Get out b4 you get hurt!
2006-10-17 06:17:36 · answer #11 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋