caught them
2006-10-17 05:59:29 · 10 answers · asked by alex e 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Unfortantly, I have found out that my ex-husband cheated on me...We were only married for one month before it started happening...we were together 12 years...and I am happy to say I have been divorced from him for two years...But the only thing you can do is simple....talk to them, if they deny over and over, then leave them. I know that sounds harsh, but once they get a taste of the "cake and eat it too" game, it becomes addicting..You catching them is only a bigger challenge at future cheatings..it is addrenaline that will keep it going. So, you can forgive and try and work on it, or just leave...if you have kids involved, it is better to leave when they are young, because it only gets harder when they get older.
2006-10-17 06:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by cdb774 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i caught them, i'd just walk out. If he tries calling, i wont answer. Pass him on the street like he's a stranger. And if somehow we end up in a confrontation, i'd try my best to understand and forgive him,and thats if we've been in a relationship for a long while and i love him. But in the same breath, i'm letting him know that i'm very upset and he has a lot of 'making it up to me" to do. As for the girl, i honestly wouldn't hold it against her, (we wouldn't be friends or anything, but... u know) Why? Because he was the one who i trusted and expected to know and do better.
2006-10-17 06:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Id just be happy to know, and then I am not sure what I would do, this probalby sounds horrible but stick it out because we have a daughter together, but all love would be gone im sure.
2006-10-18 12:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them. If you really care for someone, you don't even do it just once. Once someone cheats on you, they have thrown all the trust, love and loyalty away. They do not respect you. You can find someone better!
2006-10-17 06:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by trancegoddess2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them to leave. I sure wish I had asked him to leave, and I wish I had not ruined my mental health by trying to get him to stop cheating. Do yourself a favor.
2006-10-17 08:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by catzrme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did Jeffery Dahmer say to Lorana Bobbit??
Are you going to eat that.
2006-10-17 06:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick his *** to the curb and find a real man :)
2006-10-17 06:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hit the road, Jack ,and dontcha come back no more, no more, no more, no more....hit the road, Jack, and dontcha come back no more."
2006-10-17 06:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them go
2006-10-17 06:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by loving m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
split up - again
2006-10-17 06:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋