caught them
2006-10-17 05:58:30 · 15 answers · asked by alex e 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I walked in on my wife getting banged and I told them both to get their clothes on and walked out. I told the guy to give me all the money you got in your wallet and he did all $560.00
I then told told my wife "Do you want to leave today right now?" She said no!
I told him leave don't ever come back.
The next thing I did was told my wife to shower up and get dressed. Were going out to dinner and by the way, "Way to go hun". next time well hit the rich Men in Burbanks. "Here's your cut>"
2006-10-17 06:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would kick my husband to the curb and not let him back into the house. Divorce would be the only thing to do. We have already discussed it. Everything Else would be able to be worked out with communication but that one thing. Cheating is so not allowed. It is the ultimate betrayal of ones love and trust for the person that they wanted to spend their life with. The problem with working it out for the first time cheater, is that you will never trust the person ever again. You would always wonder what they what they were doing and where they were going. It would just not work out. The trust would already be ruined. There is no staying in a relationship that the other half was not completely motivated to keep together and going strong.
2006-10-17 06:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by gin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is a little difficult to answer. It is easy to tell you to just leave them but not easily done. In my opinion I would say follow your heart. If this is the first time this person has done this to you and you really love them and you feel that you can stay with this person and forgive and forget. I would say give them another chance. But as soon as it happens again leave them because if they do it twice they will probably keep on doing it. You have to make sure you can trust this person.
2006-10-17 07:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big difference between -friend and spouse.
A dating partner should be tossed out no questions asked. No trust can be established.
A Spouse that cheats is in a whole different realm. If you value the marriage and this is the first time, get counseling, forgive the transgression and save the marriage if reconcilable. If this is an ongoing event, initiate the divorce and don't look back.
2006-10-17 06:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jim from the Midwest 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If i caught them, i'd just walk out. If he tries calling, i wont answer. Pass him on the street like he's a stranger. And if somehow we end up in a confrontation, i'd try my best to understand and forgive him,and thats if we've been in a relationship for a long while and i love him. But in the same breath, i'm letting him know that i'm very upset and he has a lot of 'making it up to me" to do. As for the girl, i honestly wouldn't hold it against her, (we wouldn't be friends or anything, but... u know) Why? Because he was the one who i trusted and expected to know and do better.
2016-05-22 08:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look deep into my heart...was I overweight...useless in the sack, not adventurous enough, did I not fulfill my partners fantasies...could I still have a chance if more O A BDSM GROUP OUTDOOR STUFF.....or am I really that useless.......it is 95% of the time YOU fault your partner strayed..oh! I forgot..ignore the religious loonies and puritan loners on here
2006-10-17 06:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them, that is the ultimate betrayel, how can u have a good relationship with sumbody u cant trust, i wud rather be close to one person i cud trust than a 1000 people i am not sure about, very few things in people mean more than honor and integrity and if you are with sumone that does not have these qualities then drama and pain are bound to be the result
2006-10-17 06:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by menguss 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I caught my ex and I kicked her out and divorced her. I mean, what else can you do that's legal?
2006-10-17 06:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
95% chance I would dump them on the spot with no need to even think twice about it.
2006-10-17 06:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would break up/divorce/etc... because in our vows we said the only way we would part is through death or adultery.
2006-10-17 06:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋