So are we here to suffer?

Question

1. Nothing ever goes as planned in life.
2. You keep making mistakes.
3. People make you suffer/you make yourself suffered.
4. Most of the times,you don't have the stregnth to do anything right.
5. You want to do the right thing, but your feelings make you do something else.
6. Just when things are going right, something bad happens.
7. Just when things are bad, something worse happens.
8. So much trying to do the best you can, then you get old, then you die.
9. You can't go back and correct anything.
10.Just when you know it's going to be good, it's bad.

Answer 1

No. We are here to live life as a volunteer to whatever you want of it. People that suffer, just look at why they are suffering, and most of the time ( I repeat, most of the time) they are suffering for something they VOLUNTARILY chose. Most of the time we are volunteers of what is happening in our lives and then look for the easy way of blaming someone else for it. As adults we have to take responsibility for each and every decision and preview the possible consequences. Just take each day at a time. Look to the positive and beautiful things that happen around you each day and then at the end of the day weigh in the negative ones and you will see that there is more beauty in your life than you may think...

Take care and live and love TODAY.

Answer 2

To answer your questions, I will answer them directly, 1-10

1. Absolutely, so why even plan for the future. **** living for whats ahead, thinking bout whats behind, live for the moment. All it takes is caring less.
2. NO, You keep making mistakes!
3. It's a fatal cycle. It's kind of like a a girl who gets called a slut is also a girl who dresses slutty. Breaking out can be hard, but be a man, not a pussy. Just think that people who make you suffer give you the right to make them suffer.
4. If it's physical stength, work out. If it's mental strength, same as working out. The key behind working out is really just sticking to a productive attitude. LIke playing an instrument. You can either play your intstrument, or you can practice and build to gain strength in your tunes.
5. GET OVER FEELINGS! Don't supress feelings, just become an asshole. Only people with feelings will care that YOU no longer have feelings, and having feelings is being emotional. Being emotional is wrong. Being emotional makes you depressed and wrong at life because you are bringing all of that **** onto yourself.
6. If that were true, humans wouldn't exist because the first dude wouldn't have scored. Even if what you say is true, just because something bad happens everytime things go right, doesn't necissarily mean the bad thing is really all that bad. It could be like, you talk to a girl, things go good, you get into her pants and somehow a cd case gets knocked down and breaks. So what! You're still gettin' laid!
7. That only happens sometimes, deal with it!
8. If trying to do the best you can doesn't make you happy, do what does make life worth living. If you realling think nothing, kill yourself. **** everything and everyone else, in your eyes, YOU should always come first!
9. You can't go back and correct anything. I can, because I'm a better person at life. But I don't need to anyway, so I won't.
10. If you think it's going to be good and it's bad, get angry and be an asshole until you have done enough damage to make it right. But if you know it's going to be good, then it will be good, or better. If not, you suck at knowing things, so why learn more? Go off into the wilderness and fight the buffalo. That's a nice manly way to die.


Anyway, to answer the question; No, we are not here to suffer. You are here to suffer. If you haven't figured it out yet, do what I said with the wilderness. Or at least be more like a man.

Answer 3

It is called Bad Luck and it is part of our lives. But it is not always like that. After every night there is a day and after every day there is a night. At times, the nights can be very long for some people but surely there will be light of the day.

Answer 4

Murphy's law has many corollaries, but the bottom line here is that there is no purpose to life except to survive and reproduce. And surely, life can be quite wonderful at times. Carl Sagan said (and I agree): If you want your life to have significance, do something significant.

Answer 5

I think that's the perspective of certain Catholic groups. Most Protestants insist that by the sin of being born we deserve every horrible thing that happens to us and more besides.

Not exactly the greatest builders of confidence. Which is the point, of course. Break down people's se;f-confidence and you'll have them in the pews begging for your "salvation" package.

Answer 6

Suffering comes with being sinful. Sin hurts people and people are hurt because of sin.

True joy and happiness is found in Christ who forgives us our sin and enables us to forgive others who sin against us.

It really is all how you look at things...but sin plays a huge part in suffering.

Answer 7

You must be!!!
What the heck did you step in.
I was going to make fun of the question.
Awh dang I will.
Tough luck, but just the question has made me laugh at your dilemma. Man, you take it all too seriously
Thank You
teehehe HaHa

Answer 8

Absolutely not. We have a beautiful world. We are here to keep it up, make it better and be happy. Smile and try what I do: keep a blessing book. Even on my worst days, I have at least one blessing (usually a friend or acquaintance who has made me smile) to add.

Answer 9

Through suffering there is conflict. Through conflict there is learning. Through learning their is advancement.

We are here to learn and advance the soul. Suffering and Conflict are merely the paths we take in order to learn and advance.

- 16 yo Pagan

Answer 10

life is like a wheel things are good and things are bad. the wheel keeps turning and as it turns we gain wisdom and knowledge. by gaining wisdom and knowledge we should be able to learn to change negatives into positive results.