I met a guy two months ago and hooked up with him. I gave him my number, but didn't expect him to call me because guys usually don't call back if they already hit it.
He called me on Friday and asked if I remembered him. I did, so we decided to meet at my job. I work at a restaurant and he came in, had a couple drinks and ate. It was weird seeing him, I kinda didn't recognize him, but once I did I gave him a hug. We decided to meet up later at a bar after I got off work.
I went with my friends and he with his. He was very nice, he bought me and my friend a beer and he was holding my hand. Later we all went back to my place, and we ended hooking up again.
I'm surprised now because he has called me every day. We don't meet up, we just talk on the phone. Why is he doing this???? I think he just wants to hook up, but then he starts talking about future plans, like going camping. He also asked me when was the last time I had a bf and went out on dates. He also told me he likes me.
2006-10-17 05:51:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe this guys just really wanted to meet sumone, that sumone for him. and he misstoke a one night hook up for something more...but maybe its ganna be something more.
i dont think hes calling u for the ptang, because obiestly he can get sum with out the calling and buying u beer and ****, he obiestly likes u...
2006-10-17 06:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by George 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you may have given in to him too quickly before you were ready. Many guys build a strong emotional connection through physical intimacy. Because he has already won the prize so to speak, he is thinking about the future because he has built that emotional connection. If that's not what you are ready for, you may have moved way too fast and at this point it is hard to slow this down. I'd sit him down and have a heart to heart with him about what your intentions are and in what direction you would like this to go. Hope this helps.
2006-10-17 13:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by MichiganFan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably has been thinking about you a lot and maybe he thinks he loves you. Sometimes guys do crazy things then they remember how important or how nice it was to have somebody in particular. He probably wants to be with you because he misses you. Just give it time and see where it goes!
2006-10-17 13:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by RIDLEY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys generally don't want to date woman that they view as loose. Based upon what you say, you're very loose.
My guess is that he's confused and is trying to sort things out. He may not believe that you're as loose as you are (or maybe he's hoping that you're not and that HE's the special one).
The best thing you can do is tell him there's no future with you and to move on.
2006-10-17 13:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so what's the problem? And what's your question? You act like you never had anyone interested in dating you before. Maybe you haven't. Maybe you just hit it at the first meeting every time?
LOL Whatever
2006-10-17 13:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just it. he likes you. if he didn't he wouldn't waste his time and call you. he wouldn't have called again after he hit it the first time if he didn't have an intrest in you. I would say the next time he calls ask him how does he really really feel about you once you find out then decide if you want to take it further.
2006-10-17 13:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that he's very interested in a relationship with you. Whether that's a sentiment you share or not, it's important that you tell him, so that you're both on the same page.
2006-10-17 13:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Tim G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is nothing wrong,he must be impress by you,you should for the time consider yourself a bit lucky,alot of women i know day dream of guys like that.but then again beware of wolves dress in sheep clothes.enjoy him for all he has to offer,and be yourself.
2006-10-17 13:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay and whats the problem. It sounds like this guy isn't to pushy but is reflecting some interest in you and it sounds like you don't mind the attention
2006-10-17 12:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
give the guy a shot. he may feel like you or cool enough to be freinds with as well as sex. let him know what you want, dont just judge him on what he wants. he's being honest be a smart chic set your boundries but show respect to him telling you how he feels. dont be shallow, might be a hole in one rite.
2006-10-17 13:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by DustinM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋