would you leave the person you are with now if they found you and told you they still loved you?
2006-10-17 05:45:51 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my first love i guess wasnt true love, i loved them for the wrong reason. I would never leave my fiancee, she means the world to me and always will
2006-10-17 05:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I still think about a girl in my past. We never dated, so I can't really call her my first love. I almost had the chance. I had my eye on her for a long time. We were both involved , so I could do little at the time. I waited, but things happened. I had a horrible accident that left me really confused about everything ( my whole existence ) and when I came to my senses, the chance was gone.
No, I would never even consider leaving my wife. I only wonder because she meant so much to me and I had to wait. And then never got the chance. I am 100% committed to my wife and family and if the chance arose, even with NO chance of getting caught, I would still stay loyal to my wife. When I took the VOWS, I meant FOREVER, not until something else comes along.
2006-10-17 06:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by rock d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't make that mistake. the past should stay in the past... what didn't work out didn't. why should another person have to suffer because of this. put your self in the position of being in the second plate. nobdy should be treated like a second plate. if you haven't moved on you should get into any relationships. you will always think about the first love but sometime you along the route you will find somebody more special then him watch and see... its like a pattern.... but the one who really loves you is the one who will love you for who u are nomatter what and the one that always is there and stick around not comes around
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2006-10-17 06:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by gina g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't. I loved him more than life though. I think about him everyday. I know the relationship wasn't healthy and the love was not good for me. It was several years ago. I have married since, then (first time) with a wonderful man that loves me for all that I am and all that I am not (my x didn't) I would never leave my husband for my x but, my x has stained my heart and will always me a part of who I am.
2006-10-17 05:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by jesse'sluckymommy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea i think of my first love now and then and i bump into him... were still friends and i still love him but i would never leave my man for my first love...for the simple fact we stopped being together for a reason and everyone does get hurt at least once by their first love and even though my first love was good to me and even is good to me now i could never rewind...because of him ive learned things that make my current relationship even greater... so yea i knoe he still loves me and i will always love him but im no longer in love with him...you have to grow and learn to let go take the negative lessons and put them into a positive outcome just like a lot of first love's go00d luck mama
2006-10-17 05:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sometimes, he was my first love after all.
No never, he had his chance and blew it. My husband and I have been together for 34 years, raised children and faced hardships together. Why would I leave a man who has never let me down for someone who left me with the first girl he met while stationed across the world while in the service.
2006-10-17 06:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by Country Hick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that the person i thought was my true love. i think he was just a road i had to cross the find my true true love bcuz the person im with right now makes me the happiest person in the whole world i wont leave him for anything so no i wouldnt run back to my ex if he said he loved me
2006-10-17 06:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anna K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think about him often, before i got married i wasnt sure i could because he was all i thought about...i still look out the window and wonder where he is at and what he is doing, but i wouldnt leave my husband for him because i know that no matter how much i loved my ex he could never love me like my husband does
2006-10-17 07:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still think of him all the time. A lot more recently for some reason...He knows that I still love him and he told me he still loves me - but we are both married now. We haven't spoken in about 5 years I think. Oh well...Life goes on...
2006-10-17 05:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends i really dont think theres any hope for me and my first love so im just going to find someone and stick with them... but if me told me he still loved me i don't know... because it depends if i really really really care about the person i'll be with at the time.
2006-10-17 05:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How odd you ask this question. I was with my first love from the time I was 17 til I was 21. We grew up together. I thought we would get married & he wanted to. But I got scared & broke up with him when I thought about never really experienceing anything other than him. Now Im almost 29 yrs old & I dont have any children, never been married. I keep having dreams about him or seeing him in my mind during the day. I think its a sign I should have never let him go!! He IS the one that I let get away!!
2006-10-17 05:55:05 · answer #11 · answered by BooSha 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋