My wife is again going to a strip show at a friends house. More intemate than a club 20 women 2 male strippers so all get attention why is it she says she never touches etc. I know they all do and i don't mind the fun but why can't she own up??? Shes also missing a friends 40th because of this and i have to take my family alone???
2006-10-17 05:32:27 · 11 answers · asked by jfy38 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Some good answers but its not our wedding and because its not her family party she don't car wonder how it would be the opposite way around. And by the way i have never had a lap dance
2006-10-17 23:45:25 · update #1
She doens't like me going to strippers and makes it quite clear but wouldn't stop me as then she couldn't go. I think im just pissed off because of the party shows where she would rather be not with her husband and 2 daughters thats obvious
2006-10-17 23:46:51 · update #2
First of all sounds like you have a little guilt in your mind. Men strippers are very different than women strippers. YOU are not aloud to be touching the men strippers, yes women strippers you can pretty much pay them to do whatever your needing. Maybe she is just having some "honest" fun w/ her girlfriends. Maybe she is needing some fun and excitement. How much have you done in part of this wedding arrangement? Maybe you should be taking her out and letting her let loose so you can see she is just needing to have fun. Always celebrate her and her needs and you two will last forever because you will see her do the same for you.
2006-10-17 07:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that she is trying to spare your feelings, however, I am guilty of having gone to many male revues with the girls, and a few friends have had male strippers at their parties.
First, I have to say...MOST of the strippers at the functions Ive been to were gay. Yep...Gay.
Secondly, male strippers seem to be a lot less likely to tolerate women touching them. I credit this to the fact that it would be so easy for a women to cry foul if her advances were turned down. I don't think any guy wants that kind of lawsuit on his hands. Not a fact, just my opinion.
Third, stop asking. She is never going to tell you what happened.It sounds like you might be a little insecure. Unless it was my family members 40th, or my best friend, I would probably skip it too.
2006-10-17 15:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by katleblancis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answer. I think she is trying to spare your feelings and any resentment you might have towards her. She is just having some fun with her girls. It's a bachelorette party! Just because she is married, doesn't mean she should turn her backs on her friends that aren't. She is there supporting her friend that I'm sure WANTS her to be there! I'm sure you have done something similar. If you haven't you should.
After my husband went to a strip club for his bachelor party, he didn't tell me what happened, and I thought I didn't want to know. When he slipped and told me he got TWO different private dances, I flipped out. It nagged me in the back of the head for weeks, and occasionally, it comes up. If you trust your wife, and you know what is going on, then just let it go. If it will make you feel better, schedule a boys night out one night and let her take care of a family obligation on her own. Or, just sit down and tell her you have a problem with her going because of the 40th birthday party she is missing out on.
2006-10-17 14:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by Heck if I know! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is something wrong with the whole picture, no woman would ratrher be with a stripper than her own family, something is going on and it is not good, i suggest you confront her about it seriously after all i doubt that she would like to see you going to strip bars with the guys
2006-10-17 22:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by ericktravel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that your wife is a little to wild to be settling down!!! Personally I think male strippers is so GROSS.... but you should talk with her, maybe she felt bad tellling her friends that she couldn't go to her own bachlorette party. It could be that she just thinks it's innocent fun, but if it really bothers you, you must talk to her about it, I am sure that she will understand where your coming from and admit what went on.
2006-10-17 15:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by totallylovableandinlove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geeeeezzzzzzzzz...
Does your wife want her cake and to eat it too.... If she wants to go see strippers why cant you????
My husband and and I share everything and if we cant agree then we just dont do it!
I am sorry mate but I think you have way bigger problems with your marriage than just strippers..... I hope you can work it out.
2006-10-20 10:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by kellz_car 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude do you t3ell her about the lap dances u have?, or the real reason u watch porn, well she proberbly likes anon guys and 9 ince appendages!! and like the excitement of being the floor show!!!
2006-10-17 20:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by robb c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a party for her before she gets married - that's all you need to know. Did you tell her what happened at your bachelor party?
2006-10-18 04:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Veronica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is not being very respectful of you. If I were you, I would be concerned about her not sharing info.
2006-10-17 16:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you already know what goes on, why keep asking. She's just trying to spare your feelings.
2006-10-17 14:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋