2006-10-17 04:54:30 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fight back, then you wont have nothin to worry about. unless this ex' has some big secret underground gang.
2006-10-17 05:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by The FFX Blitz ™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I'd kick the guy's butt before I walked away from this crazy situation because he's probably loving it. If you don't agree...consider that you really have no way of knowing for sure what has taken place between the two of them, whether he has misled her, whether he has instigated the threats, etc. It's possible that she's crazy, but it's also possible the guy has failed to inform the x-girlfriend that it's over. At the very least, if legal action is required he should be the one to initiate it. You'll know who's lying then. Put the burden on him to stop what's happening...and he's unable and/or unwilling to do so, pass him up and find you someone w/o a current girlfriend.
2006-10-17 05:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends, on is he worth fighting for, there is fighting and there is fighting. Do you mean physically fighting ? If so where will that take anyone, it could escalate to serious damage, weapons, a life sentence. Will he merely let you get hort or get into trouble ? If he would is he someone you really want to be with ? Buy a bottle of wine, break the bottle open and pour the wine away and replace it with drain unblocker (Sulphuric Acid), arrange a get together to talk this out and offer her a glass of wine and poison the Lady. I only hope he is worth it.
2006-10-17 05:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't even consider fighting her, unless in self-defense. Don't shrink to her level.
Tell your bf shut-down his ex-gf in a way she understands that she's been kicked to the curb, he knows her much better than you do. If he won't resolve the issue then don't date him.
Ultimately there are reasons he dumped her and her attention whoring drama queen behavior is probably higest on his list for why he left.
He's with you now, and if he plans to stay with you he's gonna need to dump the excess baggage. Whether that's through legal intervention is the ex-gf choice; i.e. if she wants to be a stalker then he should involve the law.
2006-10-17 05:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I started dating my now husband, his ex was the same way. I just ignored her, which meant sometimes having her holler at me and be rude and for me just to let her throw her little tantrum. I tried to be civil, and when I had the energy, nice. I didn't tell my boyfriend about it until after we were married. Unless she is being physically violent or doing something you can call the cops on, just let it go. In the end, your boyfriend is dating you not her. She had her chance and now it's yours. Try to remember how pathetic she is being and be sympathetic, but not stupid. Keep and eye on your guy and don't give him any reasons to go back to her. Be noble. Good luck!
2006-10-17 05:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOOOOOOOO!!! HERE COMES THE DRAMA!! Fighting? how old is that? Junior high? why not go bowling instead? A restraining order could be in use. Your boyfriend could stop her, he is a man after all...wait I've seen a girl beat up a guy who wouldn't hit the girl...anyways your best bet is to talk to the athorities and let them handle it. If that doesn't work, carry a knife, not to stab her, but to cut her hair instead of pulling it out of her head.
2006-10-17 05:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by Patrick V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend is going through the same thing right now, and I say it's his fault. This guy needs to have the balls to tell her to stay out of his life. If he is absolutely clear to her that he doesn't want to be with her then she needs to back off. There must be a reason that she thinks that it's OK to harass you, maybe it's because he gave her the impression that they can hook up again (at some point). Talk to him and tell him that he needs to tell her to back off. And if she still doesn't then tell him to back off!!
Why should you deal with his old drama!
2006-10-17 05:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand your ground and don't let her scare you. Stand up to the girl. The worst she can do to you is beat you up. But the table might turn and you beat the tire living out of her. If you love your man. Then you will win the fight. But it may-not beat you up. It could be all talk and no action. She is just trying to scare you. So you break up with him. So stay calm.
2006-10-17 05:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to let him know whats going on so that he can handle it. If he doesnt do anything then you take charge. You are too old to be fighting especailly over a boyfriend. If he was your husband this wouldn't be a topic.
2006-10-17 05:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by alphasweet06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I was in the same situation that you are in......i just ignored her and let her look stupid, but it never stopped and I got so fed up I came to her level and almost fought her once. But it turned out that my Bf was still screwing with her behind my back. I'm not saying that your BF is, but i am saying that there might be another reason why she is psycho....... hoe long have they been broken up? how long have you 2 been together? Hoe long has this been going on?
2006-10-17 05:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE needs to get a restraining order keeping her away from him and (subsequently) you. Or, you can file a criminal complaint that she has made threats against you and you have witnesses. She can actually get jail time for that, if found guilty. He should fist let her know what he will do if her threats continue, as that may be enough to stop her.
2006-10-17 05:23:16 · answer #11 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋