I live with my parents and we have so many problems. We are actually going to share the rent and have seperate bedrooms. I have two children that are going too. I am scared because we do not know each other so well....what is you opinion?
2006-10-17 04:53:01 · 14 answers · asked by just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how long have you know this guy for? if u have know him a long time and trust him around your children, and you need to get yourself and your children into a happier environment then i may be a good thing.
if you have not know him for long, then maybe not.
2006-10-17 05:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by jesie girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens if your fella can't make rent?
Could you handle it all by yourself and still feed your children?
Do you know his finances enough to say he will be able to make it himself every month?
Are the children going to see him as a father figure? If things go bad between you and him, this would be a terrible position to put the children in.
You should use EXTREME caution in your situation. I would even go as far as to say forget it...save yourself the 5 years of pain and sorrow and just move into your own place with your children.
2006-10-17 06:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by drbuns 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl are you crazy , not because you and your parent are have problem that you have to move out,sit down and think about it first you have two kids think about them , you don't know what the guy is capable of doing to your kid when you are not there , the advice i can give you is ,if you are going though so much with you parent find your own apartment,if you can't afford is best you start with your parent take the problem for your kids sake and pray to god he will help you through it.
2006-10-17 06:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by spicy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too soon.
Especially if you have children involved (think of the long-term impact of a history of moving in and out).
If you don't know each other "so well", why in the world would you do this??
2006-10-17 05:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Seriously. Don't do it. It makes no sense to move in w/ someone you've known a month, and have your kids live w/ him to. I understand about having problems at home, but seriously weigh it out. That is very disrespectful to your kids if you make this move. I'm sure not one person wuld say anything positive about your decision.
2006-10-17 05:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by qbanita0113 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the problem is with your parents - find a smaller apartment or a close friend or other relative that you know to move in with... not only do you have your own safety to be concerned with but you have your childrens!!
2006-10-17 06:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by jons_girl18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT! you have kids....for all you know this man can be a child molester and what if something happens with your kids then youre going to feel reall bad because in a way, you allowed it to happen...practically asked for it....try and find you a really cheap apt.
2006-10-17 05:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont move in with a strange man for your kid's sake, they will probably get attached and what if it doesnt work out then they will be upset and you will be out of a home again
wait until you know him well and are in a committed stable relationship
2006-10-17 05:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is VERY inappropriate for you to do with children. You need to rethink it. Separate bedrooms, my foot!
2006-10-17 05:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are jumping out of the frying pan, into the fire!!!
+ BAD example for your children.
2006-10-17 05:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋