Okay so one day a guy told me he loved me, okay. Then one day he was having a bad day and I was crying because i loved him so much I thought he was hurt or something, so eventually i told him i loved him and he tells me he does too. Then everything changes. It seems that the closer you wanna get the farther that person seems to get from you. Anyone have some insite into this? and please dont go saying how young and I am just wait for something to happen, because right now that isn't really something that i need to hear. Thank you!
2006-10-17 04:51:53 · 3 answers · asked by aim 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fear of commitment.
He may feel that he's getting trapped somehow.
But if the person moves away when you are trying to move in and get closer, move away. Let them decide if they want to be with you. If they do, they'll move mack towards you. Take baby steps when that happens. No sudden moves.
I they keep on drifting away when you move back, then they really weren't in to you, or had such fear of commiment that they aren't wrth yout time.
2006-10-17 05:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by Geo-Guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love sucks but sometimes a guy can love a gurl so much that he is so scared to hurt her that he pushes away from her and in reality all their doin is hurtin us... who are they to make those desicions for us... but yea you have to stand behind him and let him your there for him... dont leave him cause it will only kill him more... and its not about age because love doesnt belive in numbers...and dont wait for anything to happen find out wats going on with ur bo0...and just remind him you love him
2006-10-17 12:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by Nena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sux
2006-10-17 12:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋