hey correction dis is a problem of friend which in fact is a boy..so dont think that im a bisexual..
2006-10-17 04:45:57 · 84 answers · asked by jenre18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, tell
2006-10-17 04:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by sdubsdub 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay. I think that it could turn into an awkward situation if he were to just blurt out that he loves her, especially when she has a boyfriend. He should maybe try to feel out the situation, and really ask himself is it LOVE or lust?? Does he maybe just want her because she's unavailable for now? Does she feel the same way at all? Do they have any history together? Anyway there are a lot of questions. I would say for him to tell her, but only when the time is right. If he waits too long she may be with her current b/f for a long time or forever, if he jumps the gun and declares his feeling right away she may bolt or shy away from him which could damage their current friendship and leave him with no chance. Just consider the consequences then go with your gut instinct.
2006-10-17 04:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by nikkismiles7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question my friend,
This is a parodox that we all at some point find our way into at some point in our lives. The situation is one of many facets and possibilities. First off understand it will complicate in a very large way issues that up to this point have beenfairly stable. Yet if your friend is a long time best friend who is very dear to your heart and has always put weight and trust into your thoughts and opinions then if you are absolutely sure that this would be the best thing for the both of you, her happiness should come before your own. But if you answered yes to she would be better off with you, and she would be ultimately happier with you and the two of you could indeed make it together as a couple then speak to her alone sometime or even put your most meaningful words on paper and ask her to read it as you sit close by.
You will be at her mercy, as you know she may be satisfied with where she is and decline your actions, will you remain her friend?
She may fall into your arms immediately and have the perfect relationship for the rest of your lives. Be prepared for either.
Good luck and please keep me updated,
Jim
You both deserve to be together and you both deserve a life of happiness!
2006-10-17 05:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your friend should wait. Because even at best she will return the feelings...this will put her into a very difficult position with her current boyfriend. UNLESS the current relationship is something that could be serious and long term or marriage just wait and if you really like her think of saving her from a painful situation for now and make yourself wait until the time is right. Good luck.
2006-10-17 04:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by Amy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so let me get this right you are asking this for a friend of yours that is a boy, and he wants to know what the best way to tell his friend that he loves her. Right? Well I would say hold off, if it is ment to be they will get together. Because if I had a guy friend come up to me and told me that while I had a boyfriend, I don't know how I would react.
2006-10-17 05:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by bandfreak_06_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I encourage you to share your feelings with your friend. The best relationships are based on friendship and she may not be aware that you care for her in that way. It's not going to hurt her feelings if you tell her you love her....although you need to be prepared for her to tell you that she doesn't feel the same way (if in fact that is what she feels). You may be surprised to find out that she feels the same. In any event, I suggest that you tell her you are disclosing this at the risk of negatively impacting your friendship and that is not your intent. Tell her (if she rejects you) that you'll always be there for her as a friend if that's how you feel so she doesn't see this as a 'either/or' situation. good luck
2006-10-17 04:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can go ahead and say to her that. If you love someone so deeply that you cannot live your entire life without her/him, then go ahead and do it. But first check out on yourself, can you lead your entire life without her/him ( even if, it is other way round for you too for a boyfriend who may be in your life too, or is just round the corner). If the deep inside from your subconscious mind tells you that you she is just right for you and you cannot live without her anymore, it does not matter how many boyfriends she had before, or whoever is her current boyfriend. It could even be that she had a crush for you (male), but could not speak it out, and was approached by your friend first, so she is with him now.
Regards and best wishes to you.
2006-10-17 05:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by Spheris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest spending a great deal of time with your friend not leaving anytime for her boyfriend. Make sure you are available for each and every one of her needs. If you havent already at the end of a conversation tell her you love her or that you enjoy being with her. Go for what you want .Make sure this is what you want !!!! For you may be loosing a friend.
2006-10-17 05:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by Queenk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is already in a relationship. Why would you want to jeopardize your friendship with him? What if he doesnt feel the same way? If you are his friend continue to be just that .You can still be around when and if things end with his present girlfriend.Why do you feel the need to tell him now?
2006-10-17 05:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh that can be complicated. My best friend told me he was in love with me, when he knew I had a bf that I was happy with.
It ruined our friendship.
Wait until the moment is right. Talk to your friend. Do you really like him or just not like seeing him with someone else?
Think about how you feel and be certain you like him before you act. If you can, wait until his current relationship is over. If you can't wait, tell him, but know that you might lose him as a friend forever,
2006-10-17 04:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! that is the problem with most females now and days why can't other females find a man of there own. don't mess up something someone else has. it is hard finding someone in the first place, and then you have to worry about other people stepping on your toes. the **** aint' cool. leave it alone and if they don't work then make your move. until then let them be!!
2006-10-17 05:02:28 · answer #11 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋