I got an ex who just "wants to hang out sometime"...I don't think its a good idea..but she says she misses..

Question

hangin out...bad idea or not??

Answer 1

If you are currently in a relationship - then no, or at the very least, invite you new GF. Hanging with an ex should be on your terms though, and if you dont want it to get out of control, become intimate again, or even rehash all the "bad" things that happened - then call it a night. You might realize that you had a good friendship that was worth keeping now that things have cooled a bit, or re-realize the horror of why is could not. Good luck - and avoid the romance if you can, it will only confuse things.

Answer 2

Well, it all depends on whether or not you are still interested in this girl. If you feel that you may still like her and wouldnt mind seeing where things went this time......then go ahead and hang out with her. But....I can tell you really dont like the idea, which means that you prolly arent too interested in a relationship with her again. I guess if you want a free night in the sack with a woman then heres your chance, but if you are a gentleman and know that your intentions for th two of are not the same, then I would just tell her that you are really not interested in hanging out with her because your feelings prolly arent the same.

Answer 3

Depends on what you want. If you want to move on a meet new people and be happier in the long term, then it's a bad idea. If you want to get back together with her and pretend you didn't break up for a good reason (or if you'd like to bone her) than its a good/great idea. Just be honest with yourself and its hard to go wrong.

Answer 4

Most girls want to continue to "Hang Out" with their ex because they either want to get back together or want to feel like they are still that special person in your life. Feel free to hang out but be prepared for her to most likely have some issues when you start dating someone else. If you want to do it then the best thing is to hang out in group situations and not alone, it helps a little but she will still probably have issues when you find someone else.

Answer 5

no its not but what if she wants more than that?u said shes a ex so u have to think if u really wanna be with her again cause she might broke up again when she got bored of u.or maybe she needs just a friend untill she will find another guy

Answer 6

Your call.

If you aren't with anyone, no problem seeing how it turns out. If it was her who broke it off with you, red flags. She may have been either:

1: Dumped by her last boyfriend.
2: Realized she made a mistake.
3: Dumped her last boyfriend becease whatever.

Only #2 is any good.

But my advise is to go with the flow. Expect nothing and play it cool.

Answer 7

dont do it, if u do end up with her dont make it wierd just be a good freind,also if u were to go back out wich sounds like u might still have a flame for her make sure the same mistake that broke u 2 up in the first place wont pop its ugly head up again..luck to ya

Answer 8

you start a relationship as friends and there is no reason why you can't end one as friends just let her know that is where the line is drawn.....and she needs to accept that and if she tries to come onto you then the hanging out will have to stop.....sometimes the closest friends are ones you dated in the past and some people are just better friends then lovers...

Answer 9

There is nothing wrong with hanging out with an ex. YOu can always be friends.

Answer 10

it seems like you don't want to....its a bad idea if you just go ahead, i hope you are not involved with someone at the moment who may find your friendship with you ex as a threat.......don't do anything you don't want to do........... But on the other hand, it seems like you are in demand.......good luck.........