I'm a virgin and don't want to have sex yet but I have been expermenting. Are there any ways I can make my experiments with more pleasure and less pain? Suggestion welcome or email tabo_war@yahoo.com
2006-10-17 04:29:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 18 for those that wanted to know.
2006-10-17 04:37:58 · update #1
There is no pleasure without pain at first. I was 18 when I lost my viriginity. SAVE IT. If anything goes in it will hurt. I will blunt with you. The guy you are with will try and try harder and harder each time to go further and further and be as sweet as he can. He will be prince charming. They can only think of one thing at that time. if they can't get it that time they will try the next. The more experimenting you do the closer you are to losing your viriginity.
Set rules and boundries with your partner. Make sure that he knows that you mean business and no sex so don't even try.
You could bring card games into the bedroom. Food, What is my favorite color...if wrong then does something if right you take of clothes or do something...make up a game. I don't know how far you have actully gone so I don't want to tell you too much.
Any questions Bonkers81ny@yahoo.com
2006-10-17 04:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by wonder woman81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your sex experiments with your boyfriend you might want to be on top. This gives you more control of the outcome and if he does penetrate, your Hymen is moved out of the way a little and it will be less pain.
2006-10-17 12:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by 55 and trying 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of places on a person's body that can be sensitive; if you or the other person is only focusing on one place, I suggest that you guys try exploring other places with your hands or other wise. You might find that you like you legs being kissed more than your neck.
2006-10-17 11:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only pain you should experience is when you actually have sex and if he is fingering you and it hurts just tell he to play with your clit insteadd some girls are smaller than others its not a bad thing its just means that you have to be gentle, and if you dont like him playing with your clit get a vibrator and just use it on the outside let us know how it works for ya
2006-10-17 11:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by LiL mAmMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me how old you are... Then we can talk. If ur under 18 then you don't need the advice. I wouldn't suggest any give her any till she says how old she is.
2006-10-17 11:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by t 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it shouldn't hurt, so stop doing what your doing. You can wait on the s**, your a virgin only once, so enjoy the innocence of it all.
2006-10-17 11:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by dollface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is very confusing.
Just wait till your married then you can experiment all you want with your husband.
2006-10-17 11:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Shade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a sex store like christies toy box or something
2006-10-17 11:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by ashamalee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tabo u already no the answer.Sex is not the answer.
2006-10-17 12:07:50 · answer #9 · answered by shbharath 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a little vasalene on your finger next time.
2006-10-17 11:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋