how can i know the rigth man for me,i am always gentle when am with my guy,when he hurt me i don't always react too much on it , because i don't what to hurt him ,but he count it to another thing,this as be breaking my relationship.pls what can i always do to save my relationship.
2006-10-17 04:17:56 · 13 answers · asked by abby e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should spend more time with him or to be more understand what he need. you can oso ask him
2006-10-17 04:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by evolutionf330q 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First off some relationships are not worth saving. And the most important thing is to save yourself from idiots that don't deserve you. You are a good person and there are just to many stupid men out there that has nothing better to do then to take advantage of you, So you are just going to have to be more picky in your choices and learn quickly about them I am sorry to say this but some men can be dogs and they need to be caged and kept away from other humans, and they are the ones that teaches women to hate us and that is something no good man needs............. Also remember that no real man would ever get tired of receiving love and respect from a good woman so you are wasting your love on the wrong kind of man........ Please be more picky........................
2006-10-17 04:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're trying to be gentle with him, and he is ascribing it to bad intentions, it really sounds like either he's very much the wrong guy for you, or he is looking for any excuse he can find to get out of the relationship (which I suppose again makes him the wrong guy for you).
2006-10-17 04:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmmm complex and complicated question from a distance. you have to sit with a counselor or a very good friend who knows you best..in a relaxed atmosphere...and bring out the irritants...between you two....the friend could be a sound board like...and not a judge...choose him carefully...you seem to care about the relationship...make sure you care about the guy -- that is more important. shall we wish you good luck and you can manage?
PS. hurting is very sensitive question if you feel you are in his skin...don't....or talk to him before...it never pays to hurt...
2006-10-17 04:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stand up for yourself when he hurts you let him know about it or he will carry on doing it over and over again. you don't even have to shout at him just tell him ooh that hurts and ask him why hes hurting you like that, you never know perhaps he even enjoys hurting you some people get a strange kick out of things like that. if he doesn't listen then it probably best tell him it's over if he doesnt get his act together.
2006-10-17 04:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The right man for you will never make you cry and will never hurt you. The right man will never make u feel bad for being you. The guy your talking about is not the right man for you. There are far better men out there. And can i ask you a question....why would u wanna a guy who u have to walk around on egg shells all the time?
2006-10-17 04:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer Lopez 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm kind of in the same boat. you know he's right if you feel it in your gut that you dont want to be without them in your life. I have a burning desire for my ex, and i know she still cares about me. Do all you can and be yourself, and never give up. Because if you truly care and they do too, it will work out!
2006-10-17 04:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by whatitdo52253 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your aproach is good. More than this give more love and care. When he do something wrong dont think negatively. Walk in his shoes
2006-10-17 04:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by Bosco 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him what is it that he wants from the relationship. How can it improve on your part. Then tell him how he can improve. if he is receptive to the questions then he really wants it.
2006-10-17 05:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by alphasweet06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
will what u could do is talk to you boyfriend about what going on and what your feeling don't always be gentle they don't like that from a girl alway tell them what you feel and think.
2006-10-17 04:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by Daniela A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know if I could figure out just what the hell it is you are trying to say maybe I could give you an answer.
2006-10-17 04:30:06 · answer #11 · answered by Tammy A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋