iam throwing a birthday party for my son next week. i currently live with my boyfriend of 5 yrs and my other two kids. my ex husband every year for the past 5 yrs has been able to attend his child's party because i resided with my mom before. now do u think it is appriate if i invited my ex to his party this year.
2006-10-17 04:17:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
just to state my ex is still in love with me and he is so disrespectful
2006-10-17 04:33:22 · update #1
Well I think NOW it's different.
you said that your ex is disrespectfully, and still in love with you.
If my kids dad was disrespectfully and still in love with me I wouldn't want him around me at all.
I think you should talk to your boyfriend about this. To see if he is comfortable with your ex coming to his house.
For my son birthday party last year I did it at my house, my boyfriend was living with me, so my son dad came over just for about 20 minutes before the party stared. I had spOKe with my boyfriend and told him that my kids dad was coming over to see his kids before the party, he was ok with it, the whole 20 minutes while my kids dad was there I was in the kit hen cooking with my boyfriend.
2006-10-17 04:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Tuty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When throwing a party for your son, it is certainly appropriate for his father to be at his party regardless of where you live. Stop worrying about yourself or your boyfriend and focus on your son and his needs. Your current boyfriend obviously knows he isn't this child's father so there should be no problem and if there is you need to consider whats best for your family. This Ex is always going to be at least a small part of your life because of the fact that you have a child together. If thats a problem for current boyfriend you need to dump him and find someone who can deal with broken families.
2006-10-17 11:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by kealey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex is disrespectful to you or your new partner, I would say don't invite him. Your son will pick up on this and he may either be very upset and become protective of you, or he may think he can be disrespectful to you and others too.
You could try talking to your ex about his behaviour, and tell him that if he can't be civil then for your sons sake he shouldn't come. This may make him realise how unreasonable he is being, it may not too but it's worth a try.xxxx
2006-10-17 11:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by stiflersmom29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Your ex is still your sons father so he should be invited.
2. People in love certainly are not disrespectful.
2006-10-17 11:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the childs father of course you have to invite him unless of course your son doesn't want him there...
2006-10-17 13:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by kareno209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's the child's father, why not? Otherwise, I would speak with your boyfriend and see how he feels about the subject.
2006-10-17 11:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by So What 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would have to talk it out with your now boyfriend and your ex husband because if he's not going to be respectfull to you and your new boyfriend then he doesnt need to be there
2006-10-17 11:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see no reason why he can not attend his sons birthday party....
2006-10-17 11:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by dollyvg2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋