my boyfriend teeth are yellow and in bad condition, I asked him to go to dentist he got mad. was I wrong to ask him that.
Really bad teeth turn me off, and I told him I might leave him if he insist not to look after them and himself.
he promised me to go to densit but he never went..
he promised me to learn and go to college or university but he never went, he is just working full time and he keeps saying he will study in the future after he gets married. cause he is not that happy right now.
do i belive him or just leave him.
thanks
2006-10-17 03:51:24 · 8 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
on the teeth issue he might well have a phobia about dentists. tell him lots of dentists are very understanding of this issue. tell him u`ll go wiv him to give him support. on the other issue of college or university he just sounds lazy to me. give him one final ultimatum. that way he can`t say u`ve been unfair
2006-10-17 07:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by graham f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are about broken promises and the will to overcome them but If he says his friends come above you and that without sex the relationship is over..then it's time to move on. I don't know what you saw in him to get involved but from what you typed down here,the guy is a prick and doesn't deserve you. He doesn't like you being "obsessed"? fine.. get over him and find someone else. Don't expect that to be the end of it though. Us guys never realize we have it so good until it's taken away from us. Just make sure to say no when he comes crying back or it'll be good for a few weeks before it turns into bad drama again.
2016-03-28 12:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Aline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If bad teeth are a turn off for you, why did you get together with him in the first place? I'm presuming that his teeth haven't turned yellow over night!
And as far as him studying goes, surly it's his choice. He's not said he's not going to improve himself, just not yet! That hardly constitutes as breaking his promise!
To be honest, I think you're being a lit petty!
The guys earning a living!
2006-10-17 04:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eugh im totally with you on him getting his horrible teeth sortedout! Like what age is he? It sounds to me like hes looking for a mother - not a girlfriend! Relationships are hard enough work without having to chase after your partner and treat them like you would children. Id give him a serious ultimatium - either he pulls himself together or you're outa there. good luck! xx
2006-10-17 04:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offence, but why did you go out with him in the first place if he was so awful, did he actually promise to do these things or did you tell him to?????? Really, is he your boyfriend, or your child, cos that is what you are treating him like..........
2006-10-17 04:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by chelleyb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him - plenty more of them around!! Life to short to stick with him!!
2006-10-17 04:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats this doods name and why are you with someone that dont take care of themselves if i was you i would have already left him but thats just my opinion!!!!!!
2006-10-17 04:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2006-10-17 04:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by Magick Kitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋