I've know this guy pretty much my whole life and recently I've realized I have feelings for him. I want to tell him about it, but then I'm not sure what to do...
2006-10-17 03:48:26 · 14 answers · asked by Mandie E 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys don't always see whats around them. I had a similar situation many years ago. I always thought this girl was way out of my league and NEVER thought of asking her out. She made her feelings known and we dated for a few years. We have been married for many years. Tell him!
2006-10-17 04:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by ratdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Remember you always regret the things you didn't do in life as opposed to the things you did do in life. So I would tell him how you feel. I am sure he is thinking the same thing of you. I would write it to him in a e-mail. Something about writing that is a little bit more romantic. It is also a bit easier than doing it face to face. This will also give him a chance to think about it rather than putting him on the spot. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-10-17 03:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by MightyRighty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm thats a hard one, first of all are you two good friends, if not tell him, what have you got to loose? If you are then you might want to find out his feelings if you can, once you tell him and it doesnt work you will loose a great friendship. Honesty is always the best way to go.
2006-10-17 03:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by bitch_with_atitude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. He might feel exactly the same way towards you. If not, at least you'll know, and you'll still have him as a friend. It would be horrible to look back on it later and regret having done nothing about it.
Good luck.
2006-10-17 05:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tim G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean it's better to tell him then to always wonder what if you know?
The important thing is that if he doestn have the same feelings will you still be able to be friends with him?
You can try to see if he has feelings for someone else before you tell him yours...
talk to him... be honest... honesty is the best policy!
2006-10-17 04:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him, If you don't you will sit back and watch as his life heads a different direction and you might end up waiting too long and he might start dating someone else.. Go for it...
2006-10-17 03:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by kalynn h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know...what have you got to lose? Better to take the risk, than regret not doing it and never knowing how it might have turned out.
2006-10-17 03:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please go on and tell him, if possible this very minute. Do you know that "delay's dangerous"? Some other gurls may be having the same idea. So, beat them all to it. Good luck, smart gurl.
2006-10-17 03:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just speak from your heart and tell him how you feel.
2006-10-17 03:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him ... summon up some courage and tell him .. don't let the opportunity pass u buy .....
2006-10-17 03:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by blueyedimpledguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋