why is it that some people don't like you?

Question

ok, you have the right to (dis)like whomever you choose but you should be nice to everyone and behave yourself, right? be moral & dignified in your dealings with others - so i guess, what i'm really asking is how come people don't stick to that

thanks

Answer 1

as you may know to act dignified, and moral towards poeple, not everyone will see life or view life that way.
some people dont know the rules or some people are just dickheads.

basically because everyone in this world is different, have grown up differently and have differenet views
it is reality that not everyone in the world is going to like you, just is.

so as long as you treat others right, then know that at least your doing the right thing and settle a good example.

Answer 2

Be yourself, you're the only person you have to live with 24/7 and you can't be nice to everyone, should you be moral? no, ethical? maybe, dignified? not in this life time & let's face it, its far too late now!

People are interested in one person, themselves, if they want kids its because they have plans for them, if all else fails they'll end up buying a puppy or joining an insane religious sect. Some people will do all of these things and more, the bottom line is people do what they want and find ways to justify it afterwards with varying degrees of success.

Answer 3

The way everyone see a particular person is different. We can't say that they are not good peoples just because they don't like someone, but they are the peoples which don't see things as we do. Human personality has many variations; it’s hard to judge who is right & who is wrong. Everyone has a unique style.

Answer 4

Because there are some people here just to make you! Like they say: If they don't break you, the make you! And just think of them as sand paper. You might get wounded or stratched by them but eventually, you'll come out smooth and polished and the sand paper will just be all worn out and ugly! Keep Living!

Answer 5

I completely understand where you're coming from. It's like people just don't care how their actions can be perceived by others sometimes. I always try to live by the "golden rule," but sometimes other people are just so difficult to deal with I know I don't "behave" myself. I feel like the best way to treat your enemies is to kill them with kindness - but sometimes it's just so hard.

Answer 6

There are lots of things you should do, but it's a troubling circle of descent.

If someone is discourteous to you, most people will 'Pay it Forward' and choose to be discourteous themselves, just to feel a little justice.

It's just a fact of life and the only way to stop it is for people like yourself to rise above it.

Answer 7

Because we have free will, we can like whoever we want. Some people just can't stand being around someone they don't like, and if they don't have to be around them then why should they. Thats how most people feel, even though it many not be right.

Answer 8

ppl are shallow and dont like ppl before even meeting them and thats not right! i think you should at least give a person a chance on meeting them not just judgeing them and not givindg them one backward glance! yes we can dislike whomever we wont after you give them a chance to be liked in the firstplace!!!

Answer 9

Because some people do not share your ideas of morals and manners. Probably because they come from poorly educated, poorly brought up, low class families.

Answer 10

I understand....its really annoying when people are just snooty or indifferent like ok I get you dont like me but if we're stuck together for this one meeting or whatever the least you can do is be decent - its not forever. Why dont they stick to it? Because theyre angry ill mannered people.