Two are businessmen and one's a cop. I asked her why she is doing it and she said because she likes guys in authority,i'm worried things could get messy for her if they ever found out. She is shy and insecure and i'm thinking maybe her insecurity is making her do this?
2006-10-17 02:51:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she should pick the one she likes the best and dump the others because if they find out shes gonna get dumped by all and her insecurity will only become worse & shell be hurt too.
2006-10-17 03:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by L00KiN F0R MR. RiGHT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with dating more than one man if there have been no commitments made. Dating doesn't have to mean having sex. That is something that younger people need to learn. That just going out with someone doesn't mean they HAVE to have sex in order to date someone. She doesn't sound shy and insecure to me. She sounds like she knows she isn't ready for a committed relationship and enjoys the company of friends who happen to be males. She shares things in common with all three of these guys. Maybe she's a wee bit more mature than you are.
2006-10-17 03:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will be fine,usually when ppl date it's more than one guy that's the reason for dating and not being settled down.If you see it's starting to be to much for her or you see that she is looking stressed then as a friend you can say something to her about it.Neither one of them cn say anything to her becuz she's dating,unless she's telling them they are the only one,and if so so what,they suppose to call 1st b4 comming over.You are a good friend but sit back and chil until you see something is not right and then speak on it.
2006-10-17 03:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh she definatley will get caught one day....and when they find out shes going to be left all alone again. Doesnt she respect herself at all?? SHe needs to at least let them know she has more than them. Shes going to get very tired of this after awhile and all the lying is going to catch up to her. Let her make her own mistakes and let her learn a lesson or two. Just be there for her when she falls on her face.
2006-10-17 03:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be right about her. This could be a dangerous game she is playing. Lets hope they do not find out. I hope she is using protection, their is a lot of disease out their in the streets now.
What she is experiencing is insecurity, of not wanting to be alone, it may be a good advice for you to suggest for her to speak to a therapist! What a good friend you are!
2006-10-17 03:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick them out till you're accomplished, i'm advantageous that 3 college adult adult males can decide something to do. they could in all probability %. up women themselves in the event that they tried. somewhat, why do you're able to be able to desire to maintain this from the guy? he's no longer your boyfriend and you're nevertheless going to have intercourse with him, so somewhat there is not any reason the two of you need to care if he knows with regard to the adult adult males on your domicile. only kick them out for some hours so which you will get the job accomplished, and only call them after to enable them to appreciate they could come again.
2016-12-08 16:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by money 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It maybe but the only thing you can do is be her friend, we ALL have insecurities... and she might just be friends with the guys nothing is wrong with having friends
2006-10-17 03:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity not the cause. Basic unsatisfied sexual desires are the root cause. She's fooling you if you think she's shy and insecure..
2006-10-17 03:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're just dating ( with or without sex ), there's nothing wrong with it. Until there is a commitment, it is not wrong for your friend to date and have sex with a number of guys. That's what dating is for, experimenting before you make a decision.
2006-10-17 03:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by so 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's too bad of her. It's more than liking guys in authority. Don't allow her to be a bad influence on you
2006-10-17 03:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by kooldemand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋