with my present boyfriend and he wants a child,, I would too but Im worried about 3 kids with 3 different men,, do u think I would be judged for that?
2006-10-17 02:42:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Who cares what anyone else thinks?! It is your life and your decision. If you love him and a baby is what you both want, then I say go for it!! The people that make nasty comments are only unhappy with their own life and making others look bad gives them satisfaction. I had an 18 month old daughter from a previous relationship when I got married to my husband. There were people that talked and told him that it was not a good idea to marry me and that he shouldn't help raise someone else's child. But, we loved each other, and we got married anyway. Now, we've been married 6 years and have 2 more children together. And you know what? I never hear from those negative people anymore!! So, even if someone does say something at first, it won't last for long once they see that their comments have no affect on you. They'll stop bugging you and go on to trying to trash someone else's reputation, cause that's what they do. Best of luck to you!!
2006-10-17 02:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need not ask this question.The two most important people in this equation are already discussing it.Do not live your life based on the opinions of strangers.It is hard for a gossip to mind their own business when they are minding everyone elses.You will find opinionated fools throughout your life.Do not listen to them unless you are in need of hot air. You will know what is right for you. Good luck to you and your family.
2006-10-17 02:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to be judged anyway. 3 kids with two different men and now your married to someone else who isn't their dad?
Screw them. Let them think what they wish. As long as your kids are properly cared for. I say go for it.
2006-10-17 02:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest it does sound bad but if you have been married to two of the men I wouldn't worry too much.
2006-10-17 03:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by Alison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you care what other ppl think of you. as long as you anr you r kids are happy with it then do it. dont worry about what other ppl jave to say or think. really it is none of thier buiness unless they are the ones caring for the kids and supporting the kids. but if they dont then it is none of thier business what you do. this is up to you and your boyfirend and your 3 kids. not anyone else.
2006-10-17 02:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by jessica H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're comfortable with it ,but think about the children...ask them if it's ok with them.They will be the ones that have to answer 'why' everytime someone gives them a weird look.And does your present guy intends to stay for good, or are you going to drift and find for another ....
2006-10-17 02:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋