he was the one that chased me he wanted to be with me....does he still want me?

Question

to cut a long stroy short. my ex boyfriend liked me for along time before he told me he liked me and asked me out. the way he was treating me made me feel like i was the luckiest girl alive. i found it sooooooooooo hard to believe that someone wanted to be with me as much as he did. he would have done anything for me. and now we have broken up and we only went out 4 a month. he had issues in his life and he needed time alone to work them out. i asked him if he wanted to go on break for him to work them out and he agreed. but now we have broken up and i want to noe if i still have a chance with him. to maybe finish what we started. he chased me and liked me soooooo much and now we're borken up i still like him more than ever. does he still like me? or is he over it. i don't noe wat i did or wat i didn't do. but i don't think our break up had anything to do with me. do i give it time and wait for him. i still need more answers

Answer 1

guys can be funny like that. some would say that its all bout the chase and when they get what they want, they no longer want it. others will say that its the typical scared of commitment thing. it may have only been a month but he may have felt something realy strong for you and that scared him so he backed off from his only feeling. sounds stupid but that how some guys are. what you have to do is let him know that you want to be with him, but you cant wait forever

Answer 2

I'm a cynic, so I cant help but ask, did you ever have sex with him? If you did, he's probably gone for good. If you didn't, maybe there's still a chance...
Boys are in it for the conquest, not necessarily for the drama, the evolution of romance, etc. Males are much more visceral than women. Once they've hit a home run, its pretty much downhill from there.

Answer 3

see there is a diffrence between wanting a thing and having it
when u were not his he worked his a s s off to have u
for him its over ab coz he has u nothing more excites him
u need to put more myster in urself for him so he will go crazy solving um
he sure sounds like an aquarious

Answer 4

it is confusing, but honey, there is a basic fact about some males they only want a female until they get her, than on to the next challenge. but this might not be the case with him, just ask him.

Answer 5

I think he wanted an easy way out and hes a coward.

Answer 6

yeah let him come around. you should elaborate on the issues in his life so we can answer you better. those issues could mean a difference upon how we answer your posting.

Answer 7

Some guys are just in it for the chase. You seem young...there will be other guys who will like you for who you are and not just want to "conquer" you. :-)

Answer 8

ask him, us guys are dumb about stuff and need to be told.

Answer 9

ask him