i am a 22yr old guy and have a hairy body which really makes me feel uncomfortable and embarassed infront of my friends when i am forced to open my shirt, say when i go for swimming or when i take bath in the open shower in my hostel... friends of my age group do have hairs on their body, but mine seems to be more for this age which rly makes me look very matured..i have not waxed or shaved my body even once..does waxing help u in reducing the growth of hair ?...do u girls encourage ur men to have hairs on their body or u prefer it to be shaved?>>plz help me on this..
2006-10-17 02:39:32 · 27 answers · asked by bryan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with Tericka...leave your hair alone!
2006-10-17 02:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by Taurus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you wax it takes longer for the hair to grow back. Shaving the hair comes back pretty quick. Is the hair all over or just in certain areas? Some women really like hair.
2006-10-17 09:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by elainecynthia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you shave your body hair it will come in more cores like your facial hair. Which will be more uncomfortable to your girl friend and you’re self. I say "you are who you are" No two people are alike. If we all looked the same it would be boring right. Some girls even like body hair. Shave or wax if you wish. But accepting your self for who you are will give you more fulfillment.
2006-10-17 09:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by lynx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally find hairy bodies on men extremely gross!!! I recommend that you wax it off..because shaving tends to increase the amount of hair that re-grows. Waxing has been known to reduce re-growth minimally. If you can afford it..I would definitely recommend getting laser hari removal. That way it's permanent and this problem is not going to go away ever...and you're very young!! Good luck!
2006-10-17 09:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually like hair on a guys body, I don't want to feel like I'm hooking up with a teenager you know. My fiance has a hairy chest and I love it, I freaked on him when he shaved it during the summer. Be confident with who you are. The only advice I can give is a lot of women do not find a hairy back attractive so if you've got a rug going on back there have it taken care of. Otherwise don't worry about it. Your a man your supposed to be hairy not silky smooth like a girl.
2006-10-17 09:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jersey Style 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it doesn't matter what type of body hair a guys has. You could wax, yes, but you'll be in a butt load amount of pain!! I tear up and hate getting my eyebrows waxed!! If you wax, you'll find that it's not worth it, once the first strip comes off....owie! You could shave, but once you do, you'll have to keep it up weekly, or even daily. Best bet, is to just be happy with yourself. I'm sure you are a great guy and who cares about a litle bit of body hair. You'll find a girl that couldn't care less.
But do what makes you happy.
2006-10-17 09:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your concern of self imagine however, don't leave it up to other people to validate you. Some girls like it and some girls won't. If you are thinking about getting rid of the hair I suggest going into a waxing salon and getting a consultation and then got from there. I wish you all the best.
2006-10-17 09:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok man your question is causing alot of debate her between all of us gals.
Here's the short and simple: Some girls like hair on their guys, but others don't.
If you want to shave go ahead, make sure that it is because of you though and not pressure to conform. You will probably get razor burn though (NOT FUN!!!), and the hair is more likely to grow back thicker and faster.
Waxing hmmmm OWWWWW!!!!!!!
Yes this does really hurt, but it will grow back slower.
If your hair is just really thick, you could try taking some scissors and just triming it, not too short though cuz then you might get your skin too.
Well good luck then :)
2006-10-17 12:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by Am I crazy, or is it you who is? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not comfortable with it you can wax, it is painful and the new growth is less on most people. However since you mentioned you are very hairy then you might consider laser hair removal.
I like little body hair on men and prefer none on their chest and lower region. :)
2006-10-17 09:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT SHAVE
if you must remove it (and you will probably feel better about yourself if you do) go get it waxed, it hurts, but the regrowth is less painful, and the hair comes in thinner each time, as opposed to THICKER like with shaving.
2006-10-17 09:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waxing hurts really bad!! U could shave it but it might grow back faster> I can say I like my men with a littel hair on their chest but thats it.
2006-10-17 09:48:45 · answer #11 · answered by spawnof_thedevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋