2006-10-17 02:38:51 · 9 answers · asked by Sugar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not long ago, I was asking myself the same question. All my relationships seemed to end the same way. I finally found someone that I knew was different, only to lose him to an untimely death at the age of 44. That was 8 years ago, and I had given up all hope and resigned myself to being alone for the rest of my life. Then, just this year, I re-connected with my first love from 30 years ago, and have finally found my soul-mate. It took a long time, but I finally found the person I'm going to spend the rest of my life with at the ripe old age of 48. So don't give up, your true love is out there, and just when you least expect it you'll run right into it.
2006-10-17 02:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U just have to deal with it the best u can....speak to the ones involved let them know how u feel sometimes thats' all u need is to get it out, it may relive u of the burden u feel and it may let them see the errors of their ways if u don't have that oppurtunity then realize maybe u are better off finding what makes u happy and pursuing that and eventually u will get over those that hurt u.
2006-10-17 04:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, I really wish I could give you a great answer - because I need one myself. Time, I guess - & getting all of the negative feelings out of your system, maybe. As in, confront the person who hurt you & vent vent vent!! Let them know exactly what their actions did to you. If you can't do it in person (I hate confrontation & don't "do" it) then write it all down until you are satisfied & send it to them. Then, once you've purged all of that, put it behind you & move on. Take care, hang in there - good luck.
2006-10-17 02:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a long time to get over a love,fill your life with different things to help keep your mind off your loss,make new friends,maybe you will meet the right one for you
2006-10-17 02:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by staggerlee1944 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still ave stufff that make you think of that person put them up. Find you someone special and as long as he do the things your last friend didnt do then u would forget all about him . sometimes you just have to let it fade away
2006-10-17 02:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will help heal. also read iylana vyzant books. she is very inspiring and helped me a great deal.
in the meantime, and the little red book journey (can't remember the exact title but it's red AND VERY HELPFUL.
SHE brings it to you. EVERY situation is in this book and how to handle it. This is a BIBLE! A guide to how to deal with everything especially relationships! Please get it!!!
2006-10-17 02:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by nomorepblm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't you just suck it up and move on in time you get over it.
2006-10-17 02:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
TIME
2006-10-17 02:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find someone new
2006-10-17 02:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋