He's really nice to me, and i know he really loves me, but i just dont think i feel the same way about him. he asked me out but i said i didnt want a serious relationship just yet. my parents dont want him 4 my b-friend anyway, but i dont know how or when to tell him i dont want him 4 anything but a friend. we've made out once, we've only been going out for a week, but i think hes going to fast.his friends found us making out, and all of them like me. now they probably think im some kind of slut or something. he called me last night, and he wants to make out w/ me again. i dont care about the making out part, its pretty ok, but i dont want him to think i like him. how do i tell him?
2006-10-17 02:32:36 · 7 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him plane and simple, straight on, during a serious conversation, of course.
2006-10-17 02:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel!! I started talking to a guy in my grade the other night (on a school camp) and then I ended up playing with his hair (because he said he liked it when his mother did it!!) and the next thing I knew he was putting his arms around me and stuff. I didn't know what to do, because earlier the day I told my best friend that he irretates me!! We (thankfully) had to go and eat and I didn't return to their room!! I avoided him the rest of the camp!!
You should let your bf down gently, do not be unnecaserilly rude of anything... just tell him that you do not feel as strong for him as he does for you.. And if he gets angry, just stay calm and relaxed. Guys are weird, they think you like them when you lean against them or put your leg on their's or stuff like that.. You know contact!
2006-10-17 09:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to look in to your heart and see if you really don't love him you should not be making out with him or see if your tells you do love him. if you look deep in to your heart and see you do love him it dose not matter what your mom or dad think's at all if it is love. pray about it to.
2006-10-17 09:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sabrina S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him.
Tell him over a milk shake that you really appreciate your FRIENDSHIP with him.
Shake hands.
Slurp your shake.
The End.
2006-10-17 10:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by NC_Pianist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop makin out ? isn dat obvious ?
2006-10-17 09:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by Squall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid him for a few days and he will understand himself.
2006-10-17 09:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by Seagull 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young just listen to your parents and dont take his calls hell stop soon
2006-10-17 09:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋