..i am a 26yr old guy..i have hairs on my body and hands which makes me really feel uncomfortable and embarassed infront of everybody when i go for swimming and somtimes when i am forced to remove my shirt..i am not interested to shave or wax my body because it will increase the growth of hairs and also wud make my skin rough..do u girls prefer ur man to have hairs on his body or not?..plz help me on this?
2006-10-17 00:46:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, i myself really don't mind! but if it really did bother you, you could always find out about Laser Hair removal! for the permanant removing of hair?
2006-10-17 00:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by carlaroberts18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls actually like guys with manly hair. I prefer a guy to have hair on his body, hair is sexy, but too much of it is a bit of a turn-off. It depends on how much hair we are talking about.
If it is an excessive amount of hair that *you'* are worried about, why not try wax?
The whole "hair grows back thicker" is a myth, especially considering shaving - it feels like it is coming back "thicker" because the hair shaft is cut at the base and when it grows out it doesn't have the same pointiness as the original hair tip. It is still the same thickness.
And your skin will not become rough from shaving or waxing. After waxing there is a little rash maybe, but that is strictly temporary and after a few hours it goes away.
Waxing is more effective as it lasts longer.
2006-10-17 08:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by Satinette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to have some hair on your body but when it gets thick and stars looking similar to fur, it has to go! If the hair on your body bothers you that much, you should strongly consider getting it shaved or waxed. It would spare you the embarassment when you decide to remove your shirt. So which is better....dealing with rough skin and a possible increase of growth hair or dealing with the embarassment of removing your shirt? If your hair growth does increase, I doubt if it's highly noticeable. Personally, my opinion is that too much hair on the body is not that attractive. Especially for a young gentleman like yourself. For me, it's okay to have hair on the legs but once the hair starts spreading to the chest, arms and back it's not very appealing to the eyes. Please reconsider getting a wax or shave. I think you will be happy with the results and will feel more confident when removing your shirt in public. Oh and as far as rough skin.....in my experience if you keep your skin moisturized and shaved regularly, your skin will become smoother.
2006-10-17 08:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound to me that you have a problem.
Some females like men that don't have much body hair but then there are some that loves the body hair.
I have always been told that when a guy has alot of body hair that just means that he's a real man.
Don't be embarrased about it,,let it be seen and I'm sure you will meet the type of female that likes that and will want to make you her own teddie bear.
2006-10-17 07:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally like a man with body hair. It says 'masculine' to me. I was in a relationship with a man who had hair on the underside of both wrists, and two patches on each side of the small of his back. He knew I loved a beard, and he kept a well groomed one. The beard came in handy, especially when he was 'down town'.
I know women who like a smooth chest, I prefer a hairy chest. Don't get it twisted, I don't like dating monkey's, I just like a man who has body hair in all the right places. Hair growing out of the ears grosses me out, I don't like hair growing out from under the fingernails, just hair in the right places. Don't be uncomfortable, as long as your hair is in it's proper place I don't think you have anything to worry about. If you are walking around looking like the grape ape, then you should consider doing something to make things a bit more attractive.
2006-10-17 08:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl has their own things they find attractive. One thing is for sure though, you should try not to be so self concious and love yourself and your body.
I can tell you from personal experience that even though a girl may not like body hair on a man but she meets and falls in love with him, it wont matter if he has hair coming out of his ears, if she loves him, she loves all of him.
I never liked a man with a hairy chest until I met my husband. I fell in love with him for him, not his hair. So now I adore him, chest hair and all.
If a lady doesnt like you just because you have hair on your body, you need to think if you really want to be involved with her in the first place.
Good Luck!
2006-10-17 07:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by babyj248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you look like a shaggy dog, don't worry about the hair on your body. I personally think hair makes u look more manly. Don't worry so much! xxx
2006-10-17 07:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by mysterious_gal1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wax it does not make your hair grow more,, at all
honestly it depends how much hair,, and it depends on the girl, if i really liked the guy it wouldnt bother me
tip - dont clip it,, it makes it rough and hurts womens lady lumps... :)
2006-10-17 08:03:40 · answer #8 · answered by Bek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think having much hair is not liked by any girl including me
wax it regularly
or it looks very unhygenic
2006-10-17 07:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by Manu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like men with hair because i think they are gorgeous...
i'm an honest person..
2006-10-17 07:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋