I was at a 3weeks course and liked one guy. I managed to have a one-night stance before we each left the school. I liked him before and now even more after the incredible night. After 2 months I still think only of him. I want to write him and ask him if he wants to see each other again. Please help me I started the letter with how are you and now I am stuck!
2006-10-17 00:27:22 · 13 answers · asked by inkognito 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey there! Thank you all for your support. Just to clarify you. This guy is from another country, I sent him an sms after I arrived home but he did not answer (maybe he did not get it :-)) He has my address and mail and phone.
2006-10-17 01:07:57 · update #1
It's ok to be direct and say straight out that you would like to meet him for a coffee or a beer. Set a planned time yourself, don't beat around the bush, say would you like to meet me at _____ for a coffee on Thursday after work, 6pm
Good luck
2006-10-17 00:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by Keanu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat around the bush, make some small talk and then come out and ask him. Maybe he feels the same way but don't know how to start a conversation. Then again you may be stepping off the deep end because it may have only been a one night stand for him and now it is over.
2006-10-17 00:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your night of one night stand was just that....meaningless SEX....and you should wake up....you were nothing more than that...
I would suggest you not have contact or write letters....to this person....If he really wanted something more than a ONE nighter he would've called you or sought you out for MORE---
This will be a good learning lesson for you....Before you drop your drawers again----You'll make sure your dresser is fully intact!
2006-10-17 00:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should contact him and see how he feels.
If you two haven't spoken in months, a letter, email or phone call would be the best way to go...I wouldn't necessarily "show up" at his front door.
Yet, if he hasn't tried to contact you since your one-nighter, be prepared for the possibilty that's all he was after.
good luck:)
2006-10-17 00:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just fill him in on what you've been doing the past 2 months and then let drop the fact that you've been thinking of him and what a pleasant memory you have of your time together....
Even if he's almost forgotten you, that will spark the fire back up....
2006-10-17 00:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by Andy FF1,2,CrTr,4,5,6,7,8,9,10 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to make a fool out of yourself if you write to him. I mean it's been two months--come on, if he was interested he would have contacted you. Just let it go as a meaningless one night "stance".
2006-10-17 00:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can write : Remember the night we spent together at the _______. I have not been able to forget you for a moment since then. I want to meet you and to be yours forever. What do u think?
2006-10-17 00:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, try explaining the reason for it...asking him if he wants to have coffee or whatever will make it neat, save you face and let you know his reaction all at the same time:)
2006-10-17 00:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by nirvana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were great last night and hope we stay in touch hereafter.
Give him your phone number and e mail
2006-10-17 00:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The beauty of a one night stand is that is what it is. If you write him now you might upset his wife.
2006-10-17 00:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋