relax when you answer this question dont be too emotional, you want a few details? here some,sometimes rude,sometimes throwing fit at us, shouting at his dad(were one yoke one entity sorta were married whatever he did to her dada she do to me). I dont want a hell life and sure I dont want this kid a hell life too,I want to be a family,if not at least be decent with each other,im not sure me being as cool as i can be can really help but it looks like she can get away with anything she likes,i dont want my relationship with my husband be sabotaged and i dont want to start hating anyone and leaving my new family,i left my whole life back in my country to be with this family,got no one but them,give my whole heart but im a person too i do get hurt also,im worried if i let his daughter always get away with what she wants then she always do rude things at me,shes doing things to stop me and my husband to be with each other alone,i CAN GO ON AND ON BUT I THINK THATS ALL THAT IS NEEDED BY NOW
2006-10-16 20:50:25 · 8 answers · asked by jeanee M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
seems like dad needs to step in and put his foot down....enough is enough....and, you are the adult that her father chose to be in his life...let her throw her little tantrums, stand up to her, your the adult...that it is unacceptable. PERIOD. YOU are the WOMAN of the house, let a child run your lives, I don't think so...If he won't put a stop to it, then you have to....tell her if she doesn't stop, she goes back to mommy..He chose you, now he has a choice how he wants to keep you....the kid will grow up and move on, so how does he want to handle it...You gave up your self to move away from your family and homelife, now its his turn to give....
2006-10-17 01:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I say so may times on here, communication is everything. You need to talk to your husband and let him now how miserable this is making you. Exlain to him that yo feel you have given up a lot to be with him and very much need his support with his daughter. You want to be part of her life and are trying but she keeps throwing it back in your face. You feel you need his suport so she knows she cant play one off against the other, Stand united. This is hard for you, new family, new country, new life, talk to him, he is not a mind reader hun.
2006-10-17 08:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kid needs character development. I would recommend getting them to join the army or air cadets. Or if they don't like the military thing, then Outward Bound. They need to learn to get along with others and to be not so selfish and self-absorbed.
2006-10-17 08:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by Bob M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to nip everyones feelings in the butt go to a family counsler before one of you dose something really stupid.I am sorry but in away I feel sorry for the kid.She should probably had a long while to adjust.I was lucky in the case with my daughter was in on who I chose and she helped me fined him.I just thought he was going to be a friend for life.But she would cry for him when we would go home.
2006-10-17 07:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is jealous of her father and you do something quick or you will end up back in your country again. You know though you cannnot make your husband choose and that sounds to me like what you are doing. you will loose parents always choose their kids over their partners . Get over it and try to make peace or you will loose this family you have .
2006-10-17 07:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her help she might not have getting ova the remarage of her dad or you couls sit and talk to her make her think you are on her side
2006-10-17 08:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by temple_lynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs therapy
2006-10-17 07:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bring her to Roumania!!! :)
2006-10-17 07:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by load 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋