My girlfriend wants me to delete any photos i have of ex-girlfriends, girls that are friends...basically any girls that are not her, from my computer, even though i have known them for years and i am fully dedicated to my girlfriend.
2006-10-16 18:38:39 · 20 answers · asked by Crone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your galfriend is the insecure kind, or the hyper jealousy type, if you are as what you said, fully dedicated to her.
no, I don't think keeping photos of ex-galfriends/galfriends are being unfair to her, unless of course, you kept thousands and millions of these photos in your computer, or you kept all those intimate, kissing photos of them, that would explains why she want it deleted
the choice is yours, if you want to make her happy, you might want to do as what she says, or if you think it's unfair to you, talk to her again, communicate, and see how it goes.
2006-10-16 18:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by meow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you two have trust issues. You must have given her some reason to think that you would want something to do with any of these girls. I am a very jealous person, but I wouldn't go that far, and tell a guy to delete photos and things like that. My ex had photos of his ex's in his cell phone. I didn't care. It made him appreciate how much prettier I was than them. LOL, I keep trying to tell myself that.
Anyways, figure out what is causing this mistrust before you do anything. Good luck.
2006-10-16 18:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly dedicated to your girlfriend, you are not in the wrong. If you have giving her a reason not to trust you, you should know how she feels when she see these pictures. I would like to know what would you do if the shoes where on your feet and she was the one saving all the pictures of her ex. would you want her to delete them. You need to think about it as if it was you then you would come up with the decision that you want to do.
2006-10-16 18:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by lshndrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how long you have been together. If it's something heading to living together or marriage, then I would say throw them away. If it's a short term relationship, then no. I always throw them away as soon as I break up with the girl. Who cares about the ex's.
2006-10-16 18:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur girlfriend is insecure..she just wants u to show her proof tat u r dedicated to her.she is being a little unreasonable demanding u to delete them, but if u reall r dedicated to her u dont need pictures of ur ex.it might make her think u still like her. if u really want to keep the pics..think abt putting ur ex's picture in a folder labelled "Past" and ur friends' pictures in a folde named "friends"...this way at least u r acknowledging the fact tat they r not special to u in a romantic way.
2006-10-16 18:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by sUnSh!ne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats crazy. talk about an insecure lover, no offense but seriously. Um, no you're not being unfair to your girlfriend. I can understand though don't agree with her wanting you to delete ex gf's photos but not friends for christs sake.
Tell her how dedicated you are to her and make sure she knows you are all about her, and hopefully she'll become more secure about it.
2006-10-16 18:41:12 · answer #6 · answered by anabanana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really dont think thats being unfair and I think that your girlfriend is being completely selfish. Those are just memories, and you need to explain to her that she is the only girl romatically in your life.
You need to have a talk with her before she gets worse.
2006-10-16 18:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by volcomrocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are fully dedicated to your girlfriend then why do you need to look at pictures of other girls.... Especially your ex. Why would you want to keep your ex in your memory?
2006-10-16 18:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by Manita 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
she is just scared there might be something more to u and those other girls, feels insecure, more like that she has to compete with them for u kinda...if u really love her and respect delete those pictures...they r only pics after all, no big deal, right? all that really counts is that u 2 love eachother, and dont make yourself chose between her and those pics
2006-10-16 18:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop right there! this girl, has insecurities that you cannot solve. she must solve them. if she has no reason to doubt your word, and there is no reason for her to be jealous, she shouldnt be so territorial over pictures and stuff. thats how i feel anyhow. be strait with her and tell her youre not going to get rid of your memorbilia to make her happy. and remember if you make it past this,dont ever make any remarks about her pictures or things! she will remember this! lol good luck!
2006-10-16 18:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jeanniegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋