why do thay say guys are shallow then thay go and say "hey look at that hot guy"
or thay flirt with every guy
and thay say one thing and mean another
why can't girls just tell the truth insted of leting guys drag behind them confused
please tell me
2006-10-16 17:20:44 · 13 answers · asked by blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do men WHINE all the time? ^^^^
2006-10-16 17:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the top half...there is a bit of a double standard going on there. I am not sure why exactly you have that stigma but I'm sorry! But I'll confess, I like a man's body probably just as much as any guy likes a woman's. Maybe the difference is I most likely won't tell that guy whereas I do notice guys have no problem telling a woman they like their so and so. I am not sure really.
A lot of women (not me!) say one thing and mean another to spare feelings but all they end up doing is hurting their own because the guy has no idea what you really mean so he ends up doing the wrong thing!
Sorry for whatever you're going through but it'll get better!
2006-10-17 00:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by Rx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the age old question. Guys try to figure out girls and the same for girls trying to figure out guys. Some people have figured out the best way to go through life is to tell the truth, but it doesn't always happen like that. Just be the best person you can be and things will work out for you.
2006-10-17 00:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by Marla C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are some girls who thrive on the attention of others. It's very confusing, and I know it can be difficult at times. That's just the way it goes. There are women out there who will give you solid answers,and won't drag you around, so don't worry too much. They can be hard to find, but they exist.
2006-10-17 00:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Robot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. It's almost sad. They say whatever but you can never trust them. Some of them tell the truth, but most of them just say whatever sounds good at the moment and then they change their story. I'm not even sure whether they do this on purpose or just forgetful. Anyway, its called integrity and rarely any possess it. I mean I'm not even counting the obvious like "keep in touch", or "I'll call you"...those are obvious "no-s", but totally meaningful stuff they just totally lie or something...anyway, I've learned to just filter all of it and do what they do, forget it ever happen and just act like it doesn't phase me because I don't want to be single forever!
2006-10-17 00:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do guys say we'll just kiss and then call a you tease if you don't go all the way?
2006-10-17 00:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by 7yrs2go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i hear that all the time when I hear girls talking amongst themselves, like "ooh, look at that hottie" and "look at that hot guy in the picture." etc. well I think guys are worse though so we shouldn't talk
2006-10-17 00:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not every girl is like that. im not. stop making stereotypes. if a girl is confusing you, then she probably doesn't have much self esteem and is taking pleasure from your confusion. guys do that too.
2006-10-17 00:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by waiting4winter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody does that. people contradict themselves it happens. deal with it. it is not a girls mission in life to confuse you. if a girl is confusing to you then she is not the girl for you. as soon as you find a girl you understand then you will know she is the one.
2006-10-17 00:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by Tabitha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this question has been asked over and over, we don't even know how to answer it, aside from saying women are not the same.
2006-10-17 00:26:38 · answer #10 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't let every guy drag behind them, only the ones that will go along with it.
like you, sucker.
2006-10-17 00:52:50 · answer #11 · answered by nobudE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋