i have had a major crush on a girl for several yearslets call her sa), but have failed to act for multiple reasons. one is that it is my best friends sister. the other is that i didn't even know if she liked me. thinking that all hope was lost, i gave up the idea that i could ask her out, and it was another year before i decided to ask another girl out (lets call her cl), even though i still had affectionate feelings about sa. now, when i hang out with cl, i think sa is getting jellous. i kinda like cl, but im affraid that i am supposed to be with sa. i dont want to stop something with cl before it ever starts, but i cant sto thinking about sa. what do you guys think?
2006-10-16 17:16:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like your heart is really with sa. The reason you held back wasn't because of anything about sa, but because of who she was related to.
You should clear things with her brother first and then pursue that girl. If you pursue the other one, you'll be like "second best". Make sure you have really given it all you had with who is in first place, before you move on to something new.
2006-10-16 17:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by Black Parade Billie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't be with someone while really wanting to be with someone else. The best thing you can do for Cl is to leave her while you sort out your feelings for Sa. If Sa wants you then that is great, you did not have to hurt Cl's feelings and dump her for another girl.
2006-10-17 00:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for Big Love and have em both. Sorry it is late and I am a bit slap happy. But who knows this is a reality for some. If you can swing with it and make it happen who am I to say what is right. But whatever you do keep it honest. Believe me everyone will be happier for it in the end.
2006-10-17 00:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH WAH! At least you aren't breaking hearts. (Read my last questions) I'm sorry, that was mean. I'm just really messed up right now. You should ask sa. what's up.
2006-10-17 00:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sa sa sa sa sa u love sa.go for sa.love sa and get love from sa.
2006-10-17 00:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by murtuza a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're really confused and have idea what/who you like. ;(
What makes you think you must make a choice???
Are you not familar with the term, DATING?
2006-10-17 00:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋