I love my girlfriend very much. We, my best friend and his girlfriend got involved with organizing and participating in group sex activities with each other. I like it so much but feel jealous at the same time. I still have the same perfect relationship with my girlfriend, so that isn't suffering, I really enjoy the group action but I feel jealous when my best friend is with my girlfriend and I am with his. I shouldn't be so insecure about it I know. How should I overcome this? No telling me not to do it anymore, or warnings about pregnancy or stds. (And no, it is only girl + guy and maybe a little girl + girl, so don't even go there)
2006-10-16 16:51:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I know you don't want to hear this, but with jealousy, maybe you should stop this for awhile, and try other ways to keep thinks spiced up. Maybe she feels jealouse too. Maybe the fun isn't worth the "what if so and so is better"
2006-10-16 16:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl F 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is nothing but trouble. Sure it seems like fun now, but the jealousy thing will get worse and you will think she is doing him behind your back when you are not around. It is essentially your relationships demise. If your girlfriend is not enough for you then it is not a good relationship. PERIOD. Sex is supposed to be done with the person you love, not everybody you know. The worst part is..........I bet your girl feels totally awful about the whole thing. She is having bad thoughts too. Calling herself a s l u t and thinking she is a bad person. Sure it is exciting, but it is emotionally damaging and will never stop being that way because what you are doing is not what people who love each other are supposed to do.
2006-10-16 16:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by L.J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy to have wonderful girlfriend. Don't worry you must trust each other and that's the key to quit jealousy for good.
2006-10-16 16:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol (the end part) but if u feel jealous bout it, only u can really get over that no one else cann really help u overcome your jealously (unless u stop, but thats not an option in this situation)
2006-10-16 16:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by numba_1_babii 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your jealous tell you gf that you dont want to be involed in group anymore. even if you like it, if you are jelous b/c she's w/someone else than you like her to much to be in that stuff. take a break for a while see if it helps
2006-10-16 16:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by Biscuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a pervert. This is the type of stuff pagans a long time ago, when Moses threw the tablets of the 10 Commandments at them. Read my lips, STOP AND DON'T DO IT AGAIN. If you love your girlfriend, she should be yours alone.
2006-10-16 16:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I didn't read all you wrote
but that is sick sick
that type of relationship can never ever last especially if you are in love
the one suggesting it is not in love with you
2006-10-16 17:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are uncomfortable with this it is normal. You may or may not find it easier as time goes on. What you feel is what you feel. There's not much you can do about that.
2006-10-16 16:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all I can say you and your friends are whacked in the head,you noticed I said friends because you can't be b/f g/f and do something trashy as that.No respect for yourself or anybody else.
2006-10-16 16:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nahhh i have been around swingers for years and no matter how much they claim thay aren't jelous it is bull, unless seeing your partner get done by someone else is your fetish
2006-10-16 16:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋