We don't have sex, but we make out naked sometimes. I met him at the beginning of this semester and he invites me to go to his friends' parties and everything. We talk like friends do, but we also date other people. Thing is, I've given him mixed signals and I mess with him. However, I'm starting to fall for him....he calls me a challenge because I don't love people easily and I'm still a virgin.
What should I do? I don't know what he wants, and he doesn't know what I want as I purposely mislead him. We both are dating others yet I seriously like him a lot now, and I could care less about the others...
He calls me up once a week or so to hang out. I've met both his roommates and some of his friends.
2006-10-16 16:45:36 · 5 answers · asked by wondering why 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We also just got out of long-term relationships, so I'm not sure what's going to happen. He asked me what I wanted, and I said I don't know. He doesn't really know either. I'm confused, but I really like him now.
2006-10-16 16:47:02 · update #1
Tell him about how you feel.
The same thing happened to me except I was actually having sex with my hook up buddy. I admitted my feelings to him and we started being exclusive, it's been over a year and we're still together.
2006-10-16 16:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time you hook up take some time to be honest how you feel. Do not expect anything but be ready for anything.
He may tell you what you want to her. He may tell you something different.
If you do not take the chance to be vulnerable by being transparent you will never know.
Stop playing games and just be real. Not only can your love life take a surprising turn you just might find your life taking on a spiritual air in general.
2006-10-16 23:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait until I'm certain about my feelings to say anything about them. You could call him sometimes to get together perhaps twice a week and see what happens from there. Observe! Listen to your gut!
2006-10-16 23:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety it is time to be honest with him. Be honest with yourself. You have feelings for him, and I believe he has feelings for you to. I have been there. Play the game a little bit longer, but eventually (soon) tell him the truth. You both sound like you deserve to be happy.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-16 23:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by Feeling Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
save your virginity for someone better.
2006-10-16 23:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by maggie k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋